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petanques

43 M Chicago, IL

My Details

Last Online
Mar 22
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Scorpio
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Management
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English, French

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My self-summary
I care a lot about, and am involved in, Chicago's non-mainstream music and arts scene. I DJ, sometimes, and I do sound engineering for local (and not so local) bands. Despite all of this, I'm not much of a hipster. Really.

I might be funny or smart (these are up for debate, of course). But I'll never get to a point where I know everything I want to know or have done everything I think is worth doing. Why be boring?

I'm looking for someone who's creative, intelligent, and passionate about what they do. If you're a social activist, grad student, artist, or musician -- just to name a few possibilities -- then we'd probably get along well. I like people who can hold their own in a conversation, challenge me to think about things in different ways, and who enjoy debating everything from intellectual topics to whatever was on TV last night.

Hopefully we'll each have different interests that end up complementing one another, although a mutual love of Indian food will go a long way. Well, that and an evil sense of humor.

I'm honest and upfront and like people who are the same way. I'm impressed by people who take the initiative, aren't afraid to act, and are willing to take risks.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently a consultant for nonprofits, but I'm never going to rule out any unexpected life changes if they sound exciting.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Fortress of Solitude (Jonathan Lethem), The Basic Eight (Daniel Handler), Among the Thugs (Bill Buford), The Hollow Hope (Gerald Rosenberg)

Movies: Augirre, the Wrath of God; California Split; Nashville; Paris, Texas; Grand Illusion; Spirited Away; Rushmore

Music: Magnetic Fields, Tallulah Gosh, Simon Joyner, The Orchids, Amon Düül, The Ex, Velvet Underground, The Raincoats, X-Ray Spex, The Rezillos, Phantom Pregnancies, etc. etc. etc.

TV: Chic-A-Go-Go!, The Adventures of Pete & Pete, Breaking Bad, 30 Rock, Kids in the Hall

Food: Indian, Korean, Vietnamese, and everything else too
On a typical Friday night I am
Hopefully going to see live music...or staying in...or...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you want to. And it's a kind gesture to do so. I've never understood women who can't make the first move. If you haven't then why not take a chance?