Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a tall, pretty laid back type of person who, about 10 years
ago, gave-up the 6 figure salary & Georgian town house in
Ireland to move to France. I ran a small shop in the magnificent
Basque Country of South West France. 100 metres from the beach at
one side, and a view of the Pyrenees on the other, it is a
wonderful place, lovely people and, of course, excellent food &
Like most of you out there I have been through the failed
relationships and come out the other side slightly wiser and
slightly more self-protective. Independently, I have built a good
life for myself and, while I do truly want a meaningful
intellectual and physical relationship with someone, I am
consciously wary about compromising the life I have.
I am looking for someone who, like me, has created their own life,
and is happy with it, but wants to enhance what they have by adding
a new friend and lover; a friend and lover that has no desire to
take anything except reciprocated friendship and love, both
emotional and physical.
Let us not put a label on it, let us not search for a box to tick
or a named place to be. Let us just continue to follow and to trust
our instincts - love if it is lovable, leave if it is not. Explore,
enjoy, be excited - and maintain an honesty throughout.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
For the last 9 years I owned and ran a small cyber café in St Jean
de Luz, France. It didn't always pay the bills - but it was
Now I am taking a little time out to care for my mother. At 89yo
she has decided to leave the cold North East of England and join me
here in France for some warmer sunshine and constant companionship.
So yes - I am living with my mother!!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Logistics, pleasing my woman, running my own business
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
All these things depend on the mood - I have a collection of over a
1000 movies, 20,000 songs, shelves of books and food-markets
everywhere. Variety is the spice of life and occasionally, very
very occasionally, I might even listen to jazz for a minute or
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my driving license
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Relationships - how can we cut the risk of failure and make them
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I advocate peeing in the shower - just my tiny contribution to
reducing our carbon footprint.........
You should message me if
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you enjoy good conversation, you have a great sense of humour, are
open-minded, and love to make love in all its wonderful forms.
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