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22 San Francisco, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
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Queer, Bisexual, Sapiosexual
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Working on university
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Arabic (Poorly), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Will be in San Francisco from the 24th-1st. If you want to explore your city with me or get tea, let's talk. Back in NYC, where I reside, after that.

You are a horse running alone
and he tries to tame you
compares you to an impossible highway
to a burning house
says you are blinding him
that he could never leave you
forget you
want anything but you
you dizzy him, you are unbearable
every woman before or after you
is doused in your name
you fill his mouth
his teeth ache with memory of taste
his body just a long shadow seeking yours
but you are always too intense
frightening in the way you want him
unashamed and sacrificial
he tells you that no man can live up to the one who
lives in your head
and you tried to change didn’t you?

closed your mouth more
tried to be softer
less volatile, less awake
but even when sleeping you could feel
him travelling away from you in his dreams
so what did you want to do love
split his head open?
you can’t make homes out of human beings
someone should have already told you that
and if he wants to leave
then let him leave
you are terrifying
and strange and beautiful
something not everyone knows how to love.

Warsan Shire- For Women Who Are Difficult To Love

key words: empathy, curiosity, honesty, aesthete, intellectual, self assurance, discerning, creativity, tactile, eager, intense, feminism, politically aware, kink friendly, queer, really queer, poly nebulous , ethical non-monogamy
What I’m doing with my life
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Reading lots of books and pdfs, writing papers on said books and pdfs, organizing book readings for other books.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
napping and listening (but not at the same time).
doing a close reading of your messages.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have good posture.
Or: long hair, vaguely ethereal.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: American Gods, The Book Thief, How to Cure a Fanatic, Jane Eyre, Le Petit Prince, The Chronicles of Narnia, Harry Potter, Lolita, The Monkey Wrench Gang, His Dark Materials, A Song of Fire and Ice, Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep?, The Ocean at the End of the Lane, A Midsummer Night's Dream, So Far From God, Beloved, Warsan Shire
Movies: The Fountain, Drive, Amelie, Volver,
Shows: Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Doctor Who, Sherlock, Firefly, Welcome to Night Vale (podcast)
Music: Tchaikovsky, Morrissey, Tears for Fears, Arcade Fire, Amanda Palmer, Aimee Mann, Justin Vernon, Björk

Disclaimer: I like tons of things, this is more a sampling than the absolute ranking.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A library
A giant selection of tea
My water bottle
A notebook with a pen

bonus 7th thing: glitter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
if making this entire profile quotes from Warsan Shire would scare people away or lead to wondrous things.
where the missing socks end up.
the marginalization of indigenous peoples.
beauty found in imperfection.
holding space.
artful precision in language.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
going to bizarre performances that are debatable as art.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am left handed and have a left handed can opener.
I don't consume caffeine.
You should message me if
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-you want to make things with me, food? art? memories?
-you want to go places with me, parks? museums? art shows? mountains?
-you want to share things that you care passionately about with me.
- you thoughtfully consider your actions and how you structure things in your life and veer away from normative paths.
-ladies: lesbian sheep syndrome (I'm not a lesbian it's just a phrase (I'm also not a sheep)) is totally a real thing and we should all combat it by being politely blunt about our flirting.
-you're interested in meeting up in person after a brief series of messages, please understand, I'm pretty busy so it may take some time for things. patience is good. I'm so confused when people 100000 miles away message me.
-you have animals I can play with.

please note: if you send me a message asking what a word on my profile means (google it!), or something that is a generalized message you sent to everyone, it is most likely I will roll my eyes and discard your message. I'm thoughtful in my communication and I expect the same in return.