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21 New York, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 23
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Arabic (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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******** I need to respond to and delete messages, hang tight, I've been busy with life.*****

key words: empathy, curiosity, honesty, aesthete, intellectual, self assurance, discerning, creativity, tactile, eager, intense, politically aware, kinky, queer, poly, ethical non-monogamy
What I’m doing with my life
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Reading lots of books and pdfs, writing papers on said books and pdfs, organizing book readings for other books.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
napping and listening (but not at the same time).
doing a close reading of your messages.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have good posture.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: American Gods, The Book Thief, How to Cure a Fanatic, Jane Eyre, Le Petit Prince, The Chronicles of Narnia, Harry Potter, Lolita, The Monkey Wrench Gang, His Dark Materials, A Song of Fire and Ice, Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep?, The Ocean at the End of the Lane, A Midsummer Night's Dream, So Far From God, Beloved, Warsan Shire
Movies: The Fountain, Drive, Amelie, Volver,
Shows: Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Doctor Who, Sherlock, Firefly, Welcome to Night Vale (podcast)
Music: Tchaikovsky, Morrissey, Tears for Fears, Arcade Fire, Amanda Palmer, Aimee Mann, Justin Vernon, Björk

Disclaimer: I like tons of things, this is more a sampling than the absolute ranking.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A library
A giant selection of tea
My water bottle
A notebook with a pen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
where the missing socks end up.
the marginalization of indigenous peoples.
beauty found in imperfection.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
going to bizarre performances that are debatable as art.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am left handed and have a left handed can opener.
I don't consume stimulants, including caffeine.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-If you're on the feminine side of the spectrum or non binary and interested please just message me, lesbian sheep syndrome is totally a real thing and we should all combat it by being politely blunt about our flirting.
-You're interested in meeting up in person after a brief series of messages, life is short and I am not seeking pen pals currently.
-You have animals I can play with.
-you want to take photos of me or paint pictures of me. I'm into being a muse.