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31 Ridgewood, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 8
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Graduated from med school
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
One of the most trustworthy and loyal people you'd ever meet and I expect the same in return. Brownie points easily earned by just doing simple acts of kindness for others. I love traveling and photography.

My biggest turn offs are deception and lying.

Messaging me something that doesn't even show you read an ounce of my profile won't work. Don't try too little or too hard.

Must love animals! And not the Yankees.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Saving lives.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sarcastic comebacks.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair. And my height. Sad but true.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies: Chick flicks or end of the world movies... seriously.
Books: It's been so long since I read anything that wasn't a vet school book... but have admittedly read every Nicholas Sparks book (and get annoyed when they ruin the book by making it a movie), and read the Hunger Games Trilogy recently. WTF third book?
Music: Pink! Favorite by far.
Food: I'm really picky... American, Italian are tops.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My pets, bad reality TV, my career, my wardrobe, my Mets, my family and friends (in no particular order).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... given my job, this would be a very scary answer.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to get the hell out of work at a decent time... ! If that happens, curled up on the couch, in PJs and watching a good movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've never chatted with so many crazy men as I have on here... wow.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... how about do not message me if you haven't read my profile in it's entirety, are crazy (seriously, there are too many of you on here), are a Yankees fan, aren't looking for anything potentially serious, are hung up on your ex-girlfriend, are possessive and controlling or have the tendency to be so. Also, don't message me if you're going to freak out if I don't answer you back in a few hours... seriously.

Do message me if you're loyal and considerate, love animals, love the Mets, and aren't looking to play games.