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53 Salt Lake City, UT Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 43-55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 18, 2014
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
High school
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
hi. hello.
bear with me as i stumble my way thru this profile situation.

I just moved to SLC.
probably need to update my profile but its late & I don't feel like doing it right now.
so there's that.

got a groovy life
really stoked to still be around
love to nest
have 3 cats i can't live without.
up for just about anything.
love museums. camping. hiking. reading. sleeping and so on.
love archaeology and history.
have kind of a lot of tattoos.
listen to all kinds of music but i'm a dyed in the wool old school punk. love going to shows.
haven't dated in a very log time due to caring for my granny.
miss my granny something awful every day.
love to write.
laughing is my favorite pastime.
very loyal friend.
love phobia lists.
my intuition operates on a level considered scary by some.
want to travel more.
have spent 1-2 weeks a year in a buddhist monastery for the past
17 years.
i'm a spazz. (the monastery helps a bit)
the bay area is definitely my home.
i annoy myself by saying love all the time
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
living it.
trying to not step on any toes in the process.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
coming up with crazy themes for parties.
my best was "name that dictator" party.

conjuring people/ things up.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
fiery red hair.
green eyes.
(i'm not irish)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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the place of dead roads/ william s. burroughs
say it plain: a century of great african american speeches/ various
the new jim crow/ michelle alexander
the foul and the fragrant/ alain corbin
anything john fante
sheltering sky-/paul bowles
living buddha-living christ/ thich nhat hanh
anything italo calvino
anything fredrich engels
listen to lectures by david simon ALOT
lots lots more.....

film & tv
magnolia/ paul thomas anderson
the house I live in
the wire
true detective
watch mostly documentaries

all old school LA punk rock
bad brains
cannonball adderley
the slits
the breeders
wolfgang amadeus mozart
jeff mangum
nick cave
the screamers
tom waits
black randy and the metrosquad
and on and on and on.....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my cats
good good food
the ability to read
(not in any particular order and yes thats #7)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how much time i spend thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
have coffee every friday with my friend after work.
i usually keep it low key but if you have a plan, let's hear it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i'll admit it in private.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you want to take the time to get to know one another.
you have a sense of humor. bonus points for dry humor
you love eating goooood food
if you are looking to get married tomorrow or just a quick hook up -KEEP IT MOVING