- don't send me a message if you're only looking for friendship.
- don't be the kind of person who writes in chat speak ("u" instead of "you") etc
- Also, what's up with people who never use smileys in chats?
I'm mostly interested in northeast Asian girls (from Japan, China, Taiwan, Korea etc., sorry, no Filipino). It's not a strict requirement, but I can speak a little Japanese and Chinese, and I'm motivated to continue learning, so it would be nice to have a romantic language exchange. It doesn't matter if you think your English is poor, as long as your heart is in the right place :)
I used to be very shy, and I still am awkward around new people. I literally lost my job for being too much of an introvert and not socializing with people. Usually this is because I feel I don't have much to say to those around me. How's that for an introduction? ;)
However, I open up once I feel comfortable with a girl, and I don't have any problems with going on dates and spending a lot of time with the girl once I have deep feelings for her. You'll see sides of me that show the opposite of what I am to the outside world, very crazy and sometimes immature in the relationship - you will see why if you spend time with me. I'm a hopeless romantic and very clingy - I love to hug, kiss, lay down and cuddle in bed. There are a few things that you will have to accept about me, so be prepared :P
I used to have a serious long distance relationship that ended badly and a minor one with someone I met here on OkCupid. However, more than 90% of the girls I talk to get bored of me or can't accept me after a while, so I'm starting to give up on the whole distance thing. Having that said, if you still think that we might be suitable, leave me a message.