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25 Göteborg, Sweden Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–30
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Not at all
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
English (Fluently), Swedish (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly), Serbian (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
** Note:
- don't send me a message if you're only looking for friendship.
- don't be the kind of person who writes in chat speak ("u" instead of "you") etc
- Also, what's up with people who never use smileys in chats?

I'm mostly interested in northeast Asian girls (from Japan, China, Taiwan, Korea etc., sorry, no Filipino or Indonesian). It's not a strict requirement, but I can speak a little Japanese and Chinese, and I'm motivated to continue learning, so it would be nice to have a romantic language exchange. It doesn't matter if you think your English is poor, as long as your heart is in the right place :)

I used to be very shy, and I still am awkward around new people. I literally lost my job for being too much of an introvert and not socializing with people. Usually this is because I feel I don't have much to say to those around me. How's that for an introduction? ;)
However, I open up once I feel comfortable with a girl, and I don't have any problems with going on dates and spending a lot of time with the girl once I have deep feelings for her. You'll see sides of me that show the opposite of what I am to the outside world, very crazy and sometimes immature in the relationship - you will see why if you spend time with me. I'm a hopeless romantic and very clingy - I love to hug, kiss, lay down and cuddle in bed. There are a few things that you will have to accept about me, so be prepared :P

I used to have a serious long distance relationship that ended badly and a minor one with someone I met here on OkCupid. However, more than 90% of the girls I talk to get bored of me or can't accept me after a while, so I'm starting to give up on the whole distance thing. Having that said, if you still think that we might be suitable, leave me a message.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently working in a large software company, doing programming and testing.
Lately I have been passionate about learning Chinese and Japanese.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Programming, being lazy, cuddling...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: I like old rock from the 70s-80s.
Movies: Any comedy, horror or animated movies. Also big fan of The Shawshank Redemption
TV shows: Family Guy, Breaking Bad, The Big Bang Theory, Top Gear, How I Met Your Mother, South Park, The Simpsons
Food: Fast food or anything with meat :P
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My laptop, my phone, my bed, my parents, sleep, maybe you?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend way too much time thinking about unimportant things. Random events in the past that had little to do with me, school quiz questions, what to eat for the next few days and so on.
I also like to imagine the wonders of space, how everything is connected in the universe and what will happen to me/us in the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Just relaxing at home, watching movies or listening to music
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
So I have a fetish, it's nothing gross but it may make you feel a bit uncomfortable.
You should message me if
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If what I have said does not convince you enough that I'm a boring guy :P
Oh and do *message* me, don't just "rate me highly".