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phamar

39 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 24–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Aug 27
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Rather not say
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am recent law school graduate, although not an attorney. I am single, although I really would prefer that this were not the case. I weigh a lot more than I want to or should but am taking steps to rectify this. I have a robust sense of humor. I have been told that I am too much of a "nice guy" for my own good, although I am not sure if this is true. I am peripheral to several aspects to geek culture but lack the skills to be a true geek (geek being used in the modern sense of the word). I have a bad habit of falling for women who are far out of any league that I will ever be near, let alone in, and then end up trapped in the friend zone. But enough about me, tell me more about you.

to sum: I am single, heavy-set, looking to settle down and more than a bit geeky.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am looking forward to the challenges of a legal career, although it is on hold until I manage to pass the Bar Exam. I am mostly satisfied with my intellectual and professional progress but strive to do and be better. I know what I believe, although I have found that the curse of having standards for oneself is trying to live up to them.
I am looking to advance in my interpersonal relationships as well. I am passionate about the sorts of things that people are not supposed to talk about like religion and politics and to my great sorrow my convictions have alienated me from many people around me. This would not be problem except that a combination of deeply held beliefs combined with stubbornness has resulted in my unwillingness to adapt my values to my current environment.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Trivia, inductive and deductive reasoning, puns, and much much more. I am usually good at small talk, but much of my knowledge base is focused on the arcane worlds of geek culture, history, and political theory. Also in the presence of beautiful women my IQ drops like some that drops very fast.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't know. I am a large dude I get the impression that I am fairly average looking. My wit and intellect tend to strongly annoy or impress when I first meet people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books:JRR Tolkien, Thomas Sowell, John Locke, Sci-Fi generally, Movies: Action-adventure, Romantic Comedies, SciFi, Pixar,
Music: Classical, Jazz, some old-school country,
Food: Meat, Mexican, Assorted Asian Cuisine and American Comfort Food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My faith, oxygen, water, human contact, sleep, books.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I am going to pay off the ruinous debt that I ran up in law school. Is there any way to get tomorrows work done and still get at least six hours of sleep. How so many smart people can have world views so at odds with my own (and yes the irony of this statement is not lost on me).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sleeping or studying or hanging out with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If I admit something here it wouldn't be private anymore would it? Here goes: I have never had a driver's license, not that I am incapable of driving it just has never worked out.
You should message me if
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You are potentially interested in making a new friend. I Have found a beautiful woman who I believe to be my true love (via OK Cupid!) and I no longer am interested in any other romantic entanglements.