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phantomverse

33 Philadelphia, PA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 23–43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 5:39pm
Orientation
Sapiosexual, Heteroflexible, Queer
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Job
Other
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Status
Single
Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
*** (7/15/15) a lot of my profile was made in like 2013. recently reactivated and am currently in the process of deep edits***
*** (7/19/15) on June 16th 2015 I was admitted into the hospital for depression/anxiety. I have been on anti-depressants and anti-anxiety meds since June 17th. this doesn't define me, but will likely come up as I am working to get my shit together***
***(7/22/15) you should probably just look at my tumblr before you message me. http://phantomverse.tumblr.com/ ***

Activist.
Atheist.
Bearded.
Body positive.
Chivalrous.
Chubby.
D/D free.
Dominant.
Efficacious.
Epigrammatic.
Feminist.
Funny.
Genius.
GGG.
Happy.
Helpful.
Insightful.
Inquisitive.
Jovial.
Jubilant.
Kind.
Kinky.
Loud.
LGBTQ friendly.
Motivated.
Musical.
Nerdy.
Numerical.
Observant.
Open-minded.
Polyamorous.
Pragmatic.
Queer.
Quizzical.
Recovering.
Romantic.
Sex positive.
Synergistic
Talkative.
Tattooed.
Unabashed.
Utilitarian.
Voracious.
Vulgar.
Warm.
Weird.
Xenodochial.
X-rated.
Young-at-heart.
Yummy.
Zany.
Zealous.

I'm pretty fucking awesome with varied interests and an affinity for new people.

I'm not looking for anything more than to meet cool people with whom I can spend some time. if the wind blows us in any particular direction, so be it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
working full time as an independent small business/personal consultant while laying the groundwork for my non-profit.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Tetris.
Reading people.
Being restless.
Listening.
Talking.
Giving the perfect advice.
Giving the perfect gift.
Solving problems.
Connecting to people.
Connecting people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My beard, I suppose. Its right on my face.
my hair if it's down, I guess
My foul mouth?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I prefer scientific non-fiction (Sagan, Kaku, etc), but I have been known to check out the latest book everyone is talking about, and a few must-read classics.

Movies: I'll give almost anything at least one chance, and I have a handful of flicks that hold a special place. Favorites change by mood, but Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, American Beauty, Life is Beautiful and Wirey Spindell are perennials. (since deactivating my account I have seen a fuckton of amazing documentaries, let's chat about them)

Shows: I'm unashamed to admit I loved television, am in love with streaming services, and any list would be incomplete, but I'd be more than happy to share in a conversation.

Music: again, any list would be incomplete, but here's a few...
Led Zeppelin, Coheed&Cambria, Radiohead, Portishead, Regina Spektor, Jadakiss, Biggie, Jay-Z, The Gay Blades, Sound&Shape, Pink Floyd, Rush, Lamb of God, R.A.T.M., S.O.A.D., Mad Elephant

Food: constantly changing tastes, coffee seems to be the only staple in my diet.

I'm adding in here stand-up, because its worth noting: I think Louis CK is the best doing it right now and that Carlin took the crown to his grave.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee
Jackson
Communication
Exchange
Thought
Hope
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
words. numbers. people.
the global kyriarchy and the best way to destroy it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably on tumblr
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I wipe when I pee and I have nothing to hide.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
(you need consulting. on anything. it's what I do and I'm really good at what I do)

)You're awesome and/or think I am.
You're not afraid of a person who's honest.
You want to show me something cool in Philly.
You're the s in D/s. (and you didn't have to Google it)
you don't immediately disregard my feminism because I identify as cis-male
(you should 100% message me if you have that thing about "crosswords mon-wed" and "crosswords thurs-sun" on your profile. I respect your request to not receive messages, but that shit had me laughing so hard. and I know we'd vibe)