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phenix023

23 / F / gay / Single

Lawrence, Kansas

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Vietnamese (Poorly), Farsi (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am cute, bashful, and willing.

My Self-Summary

I'm Iranian and Vietnamese. Maybe Vietnairaninan? I think of myself as a hybrid. I've been to both countries when I was younger. Iran is probably my favorite place. Iranian people actually like Americans! It kills me with the news headlines and nukes. I can understand some of both languages but I can't speak it. It sucks though. I want to talk to my grandparents.
I'm still a kid. I've started recently on collecting figurines. I'm starting to obsess about superheroes. I still want Pokemon cards but only the first edition ones. Like the ones that started the phenomenon. I love to still color. I play with legos still. Yeah so I still have my kid side.

I love video games, I'm bad at them but I at least try. I love my Wii. I can be a gamer if I have time to be one. I getting back into GBA games now.

I enjoy anime; when I can watch it. I love ones that make me laugh. Sometimes I enjoy ones that are serious.

I'm a home body but I like to go out. I'm not much of a drinker. I don't see anything great from being drunk. I mean I'll drink one or two and I'm good. I suck at dancing, but I'll try I guess. I know I'll make you smile when I try.

I love to explore places. I love to walk. I walk all over campus and explore the buildings I have never been in. I love walking in cemeteries. Creepy maybe? But it calms me.
I like to drive. I love to get lost in neighborhoods.
I like to ride my road bike. Just got to watch out for the drivers who don't care.

I like museums, and art museums. I love walking around them for hours.

I'm shy when you first meet me. I stumble over my words and look to the ground and around a lot. I move around a lot. I'll smile at you but awkwardly. I can look like a dork and a nerd. Give me time and I will straighten myself up. I may come off as shy and quiet but I really want to break out of my shell and be the person I want to be. I want to be loud and out there and not be afraid. Around the right people I am. So give me a chance.

What I’m doing with my life

Trying to get through college. I go to the University of Kansas. I'm currently studying for Social Welfare.

I’m really good at

Listening if you have a problem. I'll help you walk through it.
I'm there for you if you need me. Call me at 2am and I'll be there. I'm good at being silly... I can be an odd ball. But that's not bad is it? I'm a good at cuddling.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm some sort of Asian...but I think they notice my lips, my smile... But I know you will definitely see that I'm quiet and shy.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: graphic novels in general. I like Hellboy, Y: The Last Man, Watchmen, Sandman series. Neil Gaiman and Alan Moore are amazing. Regular reads are Girl Walking Backwards, Keeping you a secret, Empress of the World, Abarat, God speed.

Movies: I don't really go out to see movies unless its one that I know I have to see on the huge screen and volume blasting. My favorites movies are Lord of the rings: the two towers, lord of the rings return of the king, House of Flying Daggers, The Departed, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, The Hours, But I'm a Cheerleader, Amadeus, V for vendetta, The Bourne Identity, The bourne supremacy, the bourne ultimatum, Pan's Labyrinth, Eastern Promises, No Country for Old Men, Beowulf, Atonement, Wanted, Watchmen, Dark Knight, Let the right one in, orphan...
I'm a movie lover. I'm starting to like the Asian horror flicks.

Food: My favorite dish I have to say my mom's noodle. Once you try it you will come back for more. I'll bet on it. I'm willing to try anything once. The one food I know I have to eat every now and then is pizza.

Music: Really whatever is on the radio, but no country. Some of my favorites are Stars, Imogen Heap, Jem, Linkin Park, Norah Jones, Regina Spektor, Sia, Aphex Twin, Duffy, Kanye West, Tegan and Sara, TI, techno

The six things I could never do without

Technology: My G1 phone, Computer, Internet
Family
Music
Sports: KU jayhawks, Royals, Chiefs
TV/movies: So addicted to vh1 reality shows
Clothes

I spend a lot of time thinking about

So many things!
Sometimes I think God and the world are working against me, but that is my mind talking. My heart keeps me going though.

I contemplate existence and life a lot. Why are we here? Are part of a plan? Are we pawns in a game? Do we interact and meet people because we are suppose to? Do we save one person in our life time? Is heaven/hell real? Is this heaven/hell right now? Is there reincarnation? Are the dreams we dreams part of a past life? ----I think of crazy questions yes! but think about it.

I think about my dreams and the significance. My psychology professor said dreams are jumbled memories and imagination. I don't believe it. I tell you why if you want to know.

Why can't people just flash a smile every once and while. It can really brighten up someone's day.

On a typical Friday night I am

Hanging out with my family, or going out...anywhere it doesn't matter. I'm game.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have never been in a relationship. Close to it sometimes but never over the hump.

You should message me if

If you want to get to know me better or if you see me somewhere. I bet you have seen me on campus. I'm here to make friends or even more.
I dare you to message me.

If you want a new friend.

If you want to go driving anywhere. Get lost with me somewhere? Cemetery? Maybe bike ride?

I don't do long distance sorry...

If you're a guy and message me I will not message back. And if you keep messaging me I will block you.

I won't pursue any one who who smokes cigarettes like a chimney or is in the heavy drug scene...sorry you got to respect your body. And I don't want to kiss an ashtray...kissed one and it was disgusting...