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phessler0

29 / M / straight / Single

Hannover, Germany

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.83m).
Body Type
Overweight
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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I am quiet, silly, and geeky.

My Self-Summary

At work I am a Computer Geek. Lots of servers, and networks.

'Uncomfortable silences' aren't uncomfortable to me. I don't feel the need to fill time and space with inane conversation. Meyers-Briggs puts me as an INTP, and the descriptions I read are pretty accurate.

I love to travel internationally (who doesn't?). I've been to Europe (Germany, France, Ireland, England, Italy, Austria, Sweden, Hungary), Canada (Vancouver, Calgary, Edmonton, Niagara Falls), Cancun Mexico, and Tokyo Japan. Would love to go to Scandinavia, Antarctica, Eastern Europe, Australia, New Zealand, etc. With luck I'll be able to take a trip on the Trans-Siberan Railway, and a trek to the North Pole.

I write random crap and post my photos at http://phessler.deviantart.com. quickmatch: phessler0
Now in German
Ich spreche wenig Deutsch. Ich wohne Hanover, an Altstadt. Ich komme aus Kalifornian.

What I’m doing with my life

Poking at registers, debugging scary bits of computers, meditating on my fish.

I am a Developer for OpenBSD, so I spend lots of time playing with it, and fixing things that I notice.

I’m really good at

Strange and weird trivia. Electronics in general. Procrastinating.

The first things people usually notice about me

beard, I think.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

(a) Dark Tower series, His Dark Materials books, Harry Potter; SciFi and Fantasy in general. Heinlein, Dune, Tom Clancy and Terry Brooks is a good list of authors.

(b) Blues Brothers, The Professional, MST3k, The Producers (the original with Zero Mostel and Gene Wilder), Blazing Saddles, Serenity

(c) Alt-rock, punk rawk, techno, euro dance, classic rock, blues, humppa; check out http://last.fm/user/phessler/ for what I actually listen to

(d) Pasta, Burritos, Thai, Sushi.

The six things I could never do without

correct time (I don't usually know what time it is, just that it is correct), laptop, ipod, delicious food, pocket-sized books, snark.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

SPOON!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

when I was little (3), I was mauled by our cat (there was a trip to the emergency room involved). needless to say I don't like cats any more.

You should message me if

you know some cool/interesting/whatever things about Hannover and/or Germany
Now in German
Sie zeigen (interessant) Hannover.