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phil00073

41 M Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:52pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Management
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a bit sceptical towards online dating, as chemistry can't be measured on paper, but I am over the club scene and don`t meet girls in my line of work, so hey, its the 21st century, why not give it a try!?

I love staying active and eating healthy, tend to be very positive and enjoy meeting new people and making friends.
I am a very direct and brutally honest Aries, who keeps his sanity through a great sense of humor and sarcasm. Highly passionate with a big heart, but tough side when required. Very loyal, caring, romantic and I have a lot to give emotionally in a relationship.
My partying days are mostly over and I usually prefer nice activities with my partner.
Basically looking for my lover and my best friend, someone to build a future with. Someone who will always have my back, like I will have theirs. Being able to go through rough times together as well.

Love the simple things in life. Of course it’s nice to share some major adventures together, but I also really
enjoy just cuddling up on the couch watching a movie, going grocery shopping together, going for frozen
yoghurt, or taking a walk holding hands. There can be a lot of joy in small things.
Also love travelling and have been all over the world. It would love to share future travel experiences with someone and build memories together.

Dating in LA, I have realized that unfortunately some girls are inconsiderate, rude, superficial, vain, self-centered and quite frankly mean individuals with a lack of real morals or principles. Of course, seeing how men in this town behave, I really can’t blame them either! There is such a surplus of choices that nobody ever wants to commit to anything, in fear of losing out on something better. Expectations and demands are so high, people forget everybody is just human, everybody has flaws. As a result, everybody seems to be looking for hook ups, when so many people in this town actually seem very lonely.

Finding a true soul mate is one of the most difficult things in life. I understand that we all have our preferences and deal breakers, but I feel the more you limit yourself by long deal breaker lists , the harder the almost impossible becomes. No matter who you end up with, there will always be someone more attractive right around the corner. If you base your love solely around attraction, status, etc, then you will find no lasting love. When you fall in love with someone’s character all their flaws become sexy, everything about them becomes beautiful.

It often makes me chuckle, when I come across profiles that talk about how much they want to find their one true love and in the "message me if section" it reads: Only contact me if you live within a five mile radius, are between 32-35, are 6`1 to 6`2, Jewish, etc. etc etc:))
Hmmm, I would say finding love is hard enough, would you really want to limit yourself that much in your search:))
Those criteria are just random exaggerated examples, but you get my point:)

My ideal partner is active, athletic, but also loves quiet nights staying in, cooking together, watching a movie or going out to dinner. I love a cute smile, a good set of old fashioned values, ideals, morals and a big heart.
I also really like women that are highly passionate about something and pursue their dreams, love that energy.
If you feel we would click don`t hesitate to get in touch with me though. Even if I have my preferences doesn't mean someone who is different won`t catch my heart.

I really want a partner I can feel totally relaxed and comfortable around and unlike many other LA folks,
substance is very actually very important to me.
What I’m doing with my life
working. working out. working on finding a great partner.
I’m really good at
I’m good at improvising, driving, listening and helping others. Due to the nature of my astrological sign I tend to be slightly impatient but am constantly working on it:)
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile, that i keep in shape, my sarcasm
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: any interesting biography, Tom Wolfe, Bret Easton Ellis.

Movies: absolutely love movies!! will give almost anything a shot, from Thrillers to Romcoms to Indies, but my current favorites are Lone Survivor, Wolf Of Wall Street, Sabotage and Rush. Classic favorites include Drive, Ted, Savages, Heat, Scarface, Tequila Sunrise, Miami Vice, Limitless, etc.

Shows: Entourage, Californication, Breaking Bad, Sons Of Anarchy

Music: mostly RnB and house but pretty open except country

Food: anything healthy but especially chicken, steak and sushi. Really trying to control my sweet tooth!
The six things I could never do without
health
sports
family
love
movies
internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future and how to make the world a better place.

Well and also why so many women on here expect to find their soulmate, but are too lazy to fill out any portion of their profile!?
If you only posts pics you will attract men who only want to hook up, not the ones who are genuinely interested in your character and personality.

On another side note, its great if you have so many friends, but if every picture has other girls in it and the caption doesn`t state which one you are....it`s a bit hard to tell:)
I`m interested in you and not your friends:)
On a typical Friday night I am
Going to dinner and the movies or out for drinks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Very impatient but constantly working on it.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–36
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Feel free to message me if you are looking for someone funny, passionate, highly sarcastic with a great value system, who enjoys a healthy lifestyle.
If you are an honest person with real substance, not shallow and superficial and actually want a relationship instead of always looking for a better deal or a hook up.
I won't make you a priority if you consider me an option:)
Be ready to actually meet at one point and please don't waste my time with games or not knowing what you want, or dating several people at the same time.

First date:
Dinner, drinks, outside activity, or whatever it takes to create an atmosphere where my date feels very comfortable and at ease, so we can see if there is any instant chemistry and if we connect on a deeper level.
Plenty of laughter should definitely be involved.