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31 Rochester, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Other but it’s not important
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello you.

I have the good job, the good car, friends, thirty plants and the Park Ave apartment to myself.

I like to write. I like to observe people and be friendly with everyone. I love learning, insatiably.

I love long drives to forests and beaches. I play softball, gymnastics and volleyball every week.

I love listening, and understanding.

Looking for a little more in my life. love getting in my car and driving into the country. I desire more people to join me on these adventures; whether as a friend or something more.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Tending my indoor garden, finishing my degree, growing my career.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Knowing by instinct just where on the neck and back someone needs to be rubbed
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hopefully my open body language. I like to show the world my confident, but approachable self
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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David Attenborough, with his unique language, telling me in video or print how incredible nature is

Fela Kuti - Horns that make me smile, drums that get my butt moving, harmonizing female backup singers...I want to have a marathon dance session

I eat a big breakfast and then do not stop snacking (nuts, berries, granola) throughout the day at work. Never gain a pound.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
"In dwelling, live close to the ground.
In thinking, keep to the simple.
In conflict, be fair and generous.
In governing, don't try to control.
In work, do what you enjoy.
In family life, be completely present.

When you are content to be simply yourself
and don't compare or compete,
everybody will respect you."
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can help, without losing my own peace
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out there with humanity. Just thrown into the middle of it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I over use exclamation points (because I'm usually really happy)
You should message me if
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Tell me your flaws, you beautiful, messy human. OKCupid is like a job resume, but we all know we're more than what can be put on paper.