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37 M Philadelphia, PA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:33pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly), LISP (Okay)

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My self-summary
I was told my profile was too bland and "didn't capture my wit", but I am much better at situational humor then just breaking out a joke. I'm not good on the spot. Which is why if you ever say something like "Tell me a story" I will draw a blank even though I can talk at length about a great variety of topics, and most of the time it will even be interesting. Unless I've been drinking, then who knows.

I'm loving city life, I still haven't got tired of biking and walking everywhere. The fact that new bars and restaurants are constantly opening in my neighborhood is a big bonus too.

I am pretty open and honest and I really enjoy meeting new people and having new experiences. I am also very big on self-improvement. I'm not a crazy go-getter or anything, I like my down time and don't expect myself or whoever I am with to be "on" all the time. I do like self motivated and active people though.

I don't spend much time flipping channels, it bores me. Instead I waste massive amounts of time on the internet and feel superior because of it.

I love to travel, in the past I have been to Malaysia, Egypt, Greece, Turkey, etc.. I am hoping to visit South American someday soon.

I also have good teeth.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm opening a brewery this fall. For real. And yes, I will probably share some of my beer with you.

That's been keeping me pretty busy so I've taken a break from home improvement projects, I've spent the past few years working on the 200 year old firehouse I live in.

I like to keep active and in shape, I run frequently and my bike is my favorite way to get around the city. I scuba dive when I can get away and am meaning to try diving at the NJ shore.

It has been a while but I do like being out in nature, going hiking etc.. I haven't been camping in years though I could be persuaded to go especially if I got to make out in a tent.

I just restarted guitar lessons a few months ago, I'm happy to finally have a good teacher.
I’m really good at
Recommending food and drink to people even when I don't know them very well. Especially people who tell me they don't like beer, then it is an interesting challenge to find something that agrees with their palette.

Being a good listener and the kind of friend that will come to your rescue at 3am even if I nearly get run over by a cabbie doing it. I spent a week shellacking my face with neosporin after that incident.

I play a mean bass guitar. Not as good on guitar or drums but I do have fun with those as well. I'm still looking for a good band to join.

Tiling, I tiled a bathroom (walls included) and it came out awesome. I can't do carpentry at all but man can I tile.

I'm really bad at languages. Learning French as an adult was a bit of a failure, though it did come in handy in Montreal (they are really forgiving there when you mangle their language)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I hate how this section always devolved into a long list, but pick through and see if we like any of the same things.

I mostly listen to indie/alternative rock and older emo, bands like Death Cab, Decemberists, Jimmy Eat World, Get Up Kids, Pedro the Lion, Band of Horses, The Promise Ring, Beach Boys, The Ventures, Man or Astroman, Nirvana, Jeff Buckley....
Older bands I love are the Beach Boys, Love, The Creation, Del Shannon...

Movies: Before Sunrise, Before Sunset, Eternal Sunshine, Donnie Darko, Better off Dead, Say Anything, Ghostbusters, Once, SLC Punk, Secretary, City of God. Generally anything interesting and quirky

Food: Anything, from burgers to sushi. I love ethnic food. I'm very into the whole local/sustainable thing. Obviously I am a beer snob, but I love wine too. I just don't know it as well.

TV: Lost, Man Men, Dexter, Arrested Development, Freaks and Geeks, BSG, Breaking Bad, Firefly, Farscape, The Wire, Tosh, Daily Show, Colbert Report, MST3K

Books: Enders Game, Cryptonomicon, Suburban Nation, The Political Mind, Class, A Fire Upon the Deep. Lots of sci-fi and non-fiction. I decided I need to read more classics, so The Count of Monte Cristo is up next.
The six things I could never do without
1. Toothbrush/toothpaste
2. my guitar
3. craft beer
4. curry
5. good conversation
6. intimacy/sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future and what it might bring.

When I will finally get to plan a European brewery tour. Also, when I will finally get to visit Machu Picchu (see, it's not all about beer)

I like to play a game where I try to figure out what bar/restaurant people's profile photos were taken at. Y'all need to branch out from Frankford Hall people.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'll give the cleaned up version so I don't sound like too much of a lush:

Hopping on my bike or the El to wander the city with my friends. Going to the movies. Getting dinner in center city or a drink at Johnny Brendas.

Not going clubbing. Or watching sports (that goes double for Sundays)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I once shot a man in Reno, just to watch him die. Really, this question is ridiculous.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You want someone to go on adventures with, here in Philly or anywhere in the world.

You are willing to teach me about wine and I can teach you about beer.

You want to scuba dive with me. Or you want to play guitar with me.

You want to play guitar. I recently had a 3am jam session with a friend and had a blast, sharing that with a partner would be awesome.

I am currently in polyamorous relationships. If that sort of thing interests you, or if you just want a cool friend to get a beer with, get in touch.