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45 M Philadelphia, PA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 38–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 15
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Howdy! I'm a fun lovin' average kinda guy in the City, working in technology, living life one byte at a time! I'm an easy-going and healthy-minded guy, not so much interested in material things.

Being a pretty independent guy, I've been as comfortable on my own as much as I was in a recent long-term relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Computer networking techie guy by day, helping to make Philadelphia a better place by evenings & weekends.

Besides work, volunteering is one of my greatest joys along with spending time with friends, exercising on my bike or a treadmill, watching a good movie, helping family & friends use their computers and gadgets better, taking an occasional day trip or amusement park and finding cool spots to eat or play around the city. Learning Spanish seems to interest me lately, oddly enough. Que???
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Outside of being a little shy, I'm just a regular kinda guy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Ready Player One, Steve Jobs, The Best Little Boy In The World, A Nation Of Wusses, while I don't read a lot I love sampling books on my Kindle!

Movies: The Perks of Being A Wallflower, any Star Wars, The Hobbit or Lord of the Rings stuff, Last Action Hero, The Ten Commandments and independent gay flicks.

Shows: The Big Bang Theory, Modern Family, The New Normal, Hawaii Five-O, Saturday Night Live, Undercover Boss, The Amazing Race, Glee, Desperate Housewives and Hardball with Chris Matthews!

Music: heavy alternative rock like Phila radio 104.5, Imagine Dragons, The Smashing Pumpkins, Lady Gaga, Katy Perry, Escort, Bush, The Cult, KISS, Coldplay, Foster The People, Grouplove, Duran Duran, but most anything and any type really—country, disco, pop, jazz, meditive. Variety IS the spice of life!

Food: nothin' like good barbecue, chicken, pizza, burgers, Pei Wei, Chipotle, On The Border, Fogo De Chao, mexican and eating healthier.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Well everybody seems to say family & friends & love, but that's standard equipment in my book. I'll list 6 other things that are different in the respect most people answer this question!

I couldn't live without my iPhone, to keep in touch with everyone and because its so cool an does everything!

I need my running shoes, so to keep in shape!

The cross that my mom gave me is a dearly precious keepsake.

Wegmans is the best grocery store ever, spoiling me for any other!

My iPod—collectively inspiring, energizing and soothing wrapped up on one tiny quintessential package!

The sun, I love being outdoors on long, warm summer days ... best time of the year!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm usually planning out tomorrow, but trying to focus more with living in the moment!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday nights I really like to first rev up with a good workout for the weekend and then meet up with a friend or be in the City for a beer while hopping around!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll say most any crazy thing after we break the ice! I'll also admit that my modest, country upbringing keeps me toward the frugal side, but I certainly appreciate those who make sure that I am not to a fault!
You should message me if
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If you'd like to, of course! Even if you just want to message back and forth a little; I enjoy talking with most anyone.

But with anything more: If insecurity does not rule your life. If you keep a positive, youthful spirit about you. If you are a great communicator. But also if you think I'm the kind of guy that you'd like to spend great times together with, be sexy with, share our interests together with, and be able to bring home to family & friends.

Where's your fave place to grab a beer & shoot the breeze?