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45 M Philadelphia, PA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 22
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Howdy! I'm a fun lovin' average kinda guy in the City, working in technology, living life one byte at a time! An easy-going and healthy-minded guy, I moved here from from a small town in upstate Pennsylvania. I'm not a material guy, money is best spent on experiences rather than things. I may appear to be a bit of an indecisive guy, but only because I struggle for the best for myself and those who depend on me. Being a pretty independent guy, I've been as comfortable on my own as much as I was in a recent long-term relationship. I'd simply like to find a great guy like you to share life with.
What I’m doing with my life
Computer networking techie guy by day, helping to make Philadelphia a better place. Besides work, volunteering is one of my greatest joys along with spending time with friends, exercising on my bike or a treadmill, watching a good movie, helping family & friends use their computers and gadgets better, taking an occasional day trip or amusement park and finding cool spots to eat or play around the city. Learning Spanish seems to interest me lately, oddly enough. Que???
The first things people usually notice about me
I may be a little shy or reserved; beyond that point, the sky is the limit for this guy with a big heart and desire to make the most of life!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Ready Player One, Steve Jobs, The Best Little Boy In The World, A Nation Of Wusses, while I don't read a lot I love sampling books on my Kindle!

Movies: The Perks of Being A Wallflower, any Star Wars, The Hobbit or Lord of the Rings stuff, Last Action Hero, The Ten Commandments and independent gay flicks.

Shows: The Big Bang Theory, Modern Family, The New Normal, Hawaii Five-O, Saturday Night Live, Undercover Boss, The Amazing Race, Glee, Desperate Housewives and Hardball with Chris Matthews!

Music: heavy alternative rock like Phila radio 104.5, Imagine Dragons, The Smashing Pumpkins, Lady Gaga, Katy Perry, Escort, Bush, The Cult, KISS, Coldplay, Foster The People, Grouplove, Duran Duran, but most anything and any type really—country, disco, pop, jazz, meditive. Variety IS the spice of life!

Food: nothin' like good barbecue, chicken, pizza, burgers, Pei Wei, Chipotle, On The Border, Fogo De Chao, mexican and eating healthier.
The six things I could never do without
Well everybody seems to say family & friends & love, but that's standard equipment in my book. I'll list 6 other things that are different in the respect most people answer this question!

I couldn't live without my iPhone, to keep in touch with everyone and because its so cool an does everything! I need my running shoes, so to keep in shape! The cross that my mom gave me is a dearly precious keepsake. Wegmans is the best grocery store ever, spoiling me for any other! My iPod—collectively inspiring, energizing and soothing wrapped up on one tiny quintessential package! And ... the sun, I love being outdoors on long, warm summer days ... best time of the year!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm usually planning out tomorrow, but trying to focus more with living in the moment!
On a typical Friday night I am
Friday nights I really like to first rev up with a good workout for the weekend and then meet up with a friend or be in the City for a drink or hopping around! I actually really dig watching & listening to the country line dancing, even though dancing is not my forte!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll say most any crazy thing after we break the ice! I'll also admit that my modest, country upbringing keeps me toward the frugal side, but I certainly appreciate those who make sure that I am not to a fault!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 38–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
If you'd like to, of course! Even if you just want to message back and forth a little; I enjoy talking with most anyone.

But with anything more: If you believe there is no "I" in "team". If insecurity does not rule your life. If you keep a positive, youthful spirit about you. If you are a great communicator. But also if you think I'm the kind of guy that you'd like to spend great times together with, share our interests together with, and be able to bring home to mom.