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35 Melbourne, Australia Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–40
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Last online
Today – 4:38pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Politics / Government
Rather not say
Seeing Someone
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Sanskrit (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I ferment things to eat and to drink. And I photograph things. Not the same things.
What I’m doing with my life
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Well, I'm a Dad now. An actual father! This has been a very awesome development.

I'm inviting microbes into my life. Yeast and bacteria primarily, but all micro-organisms are welcome. Except botulism.

I also work in the public service – as a child I promised myself I wouldn’t do that. Now at night, after I touch myself, writhing in guilt, I apologise to that child.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

I'm a bit obsessed with DIY. I make beer, sauerkraut (and other lacto fermented foods) and more recently charcuterie.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Fuck knows.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite books/authors;

JD Salinger: The Catcher in the Rye, Franny and Zooey and For Esme, with Love and Squalor.

Bret Easton Ellis: Glamorama, The Rules of Attraction

Chuck Palahnuik: Fightclub and Choke

Irvine Welsh: Trainspotting and Porno

Graham Greene: The Heart of the Matter and The Quiet American

W Somerset Maughm: The Razors Edge and Of Human Bondage

John Steinbeck:East of Eden

o the ethical slut


Shortbus, Gummo, Fightclub, Little Miss Sunshine, Happiness, Trainspotting, Being John Malkovich, Quills,Hedwig and the Angry Inch, The Dreamers,

TV Shows

Six Feet Under, Dexter, Queer as Folk, The Mighty Boosh, Black Books, Big Love, Louis Theroux Boardswalk Empire, Breaking Bad,


Bright Eyes, Rufus Wainwright, Ben Kweller,Smashing Pumpkins, Placebo, Portishead, Flaming Lips, Tool, Stone Temple Pilots, Sonic Youth, Muse, Gentle Ben and His Sensitive Side


I love to cook! Food is such a simple pleasure, and one of the things I love best is turning modest, fresh ingredients into something special. I have discovered the joy of slow cooked foods.I'm not normally a patient person, so it's good for me to spend a whole afternoon preparing and cooking dinner; it gives me a real sense of satisfaction. I like eating out too, I'm not fussy, but Japanese is a favourite.

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
La familia
Really, I have no idea what else right now. An outlet for expression perhaps.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I ruminate a lot. It might be a form of neurosis. I fine tune hypothetical conversations that will never happen. But, but, but... If they do happen, I'll know just what to say.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Feeling greateful that I'm not the guy from the silver K gallery ads. That guy is a cadaver.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I joined the mile high club, by myself. It was a boring flight......
You should message me if
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You think our skills would complement each other in the event of a zombie apocalypse.