Non monogamous guy seeks compatible other(s) for play and friendship. I'm intelligent, friendly, kind and open minded. If you're any two of these things maybe we'd get along.
I was the kid who instigated all the games of doctors and nurses. You'd think I'd have grown up but I ain't!
I'm in an open relationship with a wonderful woman and after a period of situational monogamy I'm dipping my toe back in the dating pool.
While I'm open to casual fun, ideally I'm looking for something more. Intimate, close friendships would be nice.
I don't identify as a feminist, and I think it's often a bit sketchy when men do but I do consider myself an ally and I do my best to listen, learn and amplify. I try and take this approach to a range of issues where another white, cis-male voice isn't helpful to the discussion.
I'm confident and friendly, though not a crowd person. I don't hear well, so I sometimes avoid noisy situations.
I have a strong interest in slow living. I make my own booze and fermented vegetables, and I love meals that take all day to prepare. I'm slowly accumulating the necessary skills to keep the beer and bacon coming post zombie apocalypse.
I’m also a photographer, though I've been less than prolific of late. If you're a creative type and you like my images & want to collaborate let me know.
Photography school dropout & reformed juvenile delinquent.
TV: currently OITNB, GOT, Netflix in general. Classic favourites include Six Feet Under, The Sopranos, Mad Men - the usuals.
Movies: Shortbus, Hedwig & the Angry Inch, Trainspotting, Fight Club. I realise these are all quite old. Lemme think about more recent offerings.
Music: Rufus Wainwright, Conor Oberst, Tool, Smashing Pumpkins, Portishead, Sonic Youth, Ben Kweller.
Something to become absorbed in
Beer (no alco)
My right hand (Sorry Jaime)
I mean, I only think about this when I'm on here, but still!
You want to grab coffee or a drink.
You'd like to make out.