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philnfly09

33 / M / straight / Single

Knoxville, Tennessee

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
—
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
—
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English, French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)

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I am creative, funny, and adventurous.

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My Self-Summary

Obviously, I am creative, funny, and adventurous...at least that is what my profile says and at this point you will just have to take my word for it! lol or .... you could choose not to believe that, but then it would be fairly evident that you have trust issues! lol..... I can't fix that!

What I’m doing with my life

Wow that is a big question... not enough room here... I'll give it a shot.
I am currently remodeling a big nice 90 year old house to sell, (soon as this lil market glitch gets straightened out!! lol) I am basically done with it and just waiting on the market upswing...Hopefully, soon, but probably first of next year, then I will cash this puppy out and go from there on to my next business "adventure"....lol..remodeling old houses can be "fun" (if ya like gettin dirty lol ) and rewarding, but my advice is "Don't try this at home" lol ...
I am also a song writer and will be publishing soon, as soon as I get my money back on this house!! lol ....I guess you could say I am transitioning in a transitional market/economy.

I’m really good at

Almost anything with my hands, (people tell me..lol...I don't know if we should believe them) also as a singer/songwriter. I love to build things, fix things, create things, I am a very "hands on" kinda guy, actually have never found anything that I couldn't do yet, knock on wood,lol . If I need instructions I look them up on the net. I just love that about the internet!!!

The first things people usually notice about me

My blue eyes, my "genuine" smile, my laid back, "don't worry bout the small stuff" attitude.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I like suspense, comedy, when it comes to books and movies, but honestly, unless I am sick and just have to be in bed(which is rare) , who has time? lol and if I am in bed and not sick, I am sleeping or trying to sleep.. ;) Music....I like everything from jazz to country, I usually listen to 102.1, but I have a pretty diverse collection as well, (music in the background usually is a part of whatever I am doing.)

Food...hmmm, don't really like fast food at all, not that I can't eat it, just prefer not to, I like Mexican, Tex Mex, Chinese, Asian, Sushi, Italian, Seafood, and all those comfort foods the south is known for...everything in moderation, variety is the spice I like..lol. I actually like to cook, but it is always more fun when you have someone to cook with or for.

The six things I could never do without

Love, food, water, clothing, shelter, (lol...I think I pretty much speak for everyone on those) and Music, of course, there are "the" six, but my list is actually much longer than that, I am sure yours is too...( we can save that for one of those deep conversations by the fire this winter with a bottle of wine..lol )

I spend a lot of time thinking about

who you are, where you are at, and why haven't you written me yet!! lol jk ...(sounded good in my mind) Other than that... I got my mind on my money and my money on my mind! Don't we all in this economy? lol

On a typical Friday night I am

Going out to eat and drink with friends, going to my brothers and doin "rock band" or staying in and just chillin, depending on what kind of day I have had. In the winter, more in than out probably, but I do like to go to Market Square when stuff is going on.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Well, puhleazzzzze!!! Duh....wtf...What does that mean? If I wrote it down here, it wouldn't be very private, would it? I will say that as embryos we all start out as females, so I guess I used to be a girl!! lol shhhh...don't tell anyone, Don't hate me!! Actually, that is just one of those medical myths, or is it? I have to know, did I start out as a girl? I have to know!! So, if you know if this is fact or fiction, drop me a line and enlighten me, please!! If it is true that all humans start out as female, I guess that proves something, but I am not sure what!! lol

You should message me if

You should message me if you actually think you could handle being around me for more than an hour, or if you really just want a sugardaddy, wait sugar really isn't good for you , maybe I could be your Splendadaddy!

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