Note: I am currently in a new and wonderful relationship with Tadisa and am focusing my attention on nurturing this amazing aspect of our lives, so I may not be logging on very often, and am currently not looking for anything romantic to add to my life. We are both poly though, so keep checking back to see if we can keep our wandering hands off each other long enough to discuss adding anyone else to our world. New friends are always welcome tho.
For some odd reason, OKCupid says that I enjoy sports. It says I
like sports more than most people. In reality, I don't. Almost not
at all. No sports. I watch the last 20 minutes of the SuperBowl and
the World Series when one team has won 3 games. That's about it.
Most game variants of Chase-A-Ball are pretty boring to me.
I am not a homebody. My job sometimes requires that I leave at
3am after being called a few minutes before. I have a fireman's
schedule without the noble cause.
"Friend" is a very important word to me and I don't throw it
around lightly. I tend to move slowly into new relationships, both
romantic and platonic. I meet people easily, but it takes awhile to
really get close. The interim is fun though!
I am polyamorous. Please read this,
because this is misunderstood more often than I care to mention. I
have now, and most likely always will have, more than one COMMITTED
and LOVING relationship. I love very freely. This is an important
aspect of who I am. My current partner is also poly. My partner(s)
will meet you before anything happens. I do not sneak around behind
my partner's back, or your partner's back.
I am a direct person. I am direct because I suck at responding
to or recognizing hints. If you need to let me know something, the
best method is to use a bullhorn and a sledgehammer.
I am low-fat, spray-painted, and durable.