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pho_real

26 / M / straight / Single

Memphis, Tennessee

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Ethnicity
Asian
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Vietnamese (Okay)

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I am this, that, and a bag of chips..

My Self-Summary

Some random things about me:

I think I'm pretty awesome.
I sometimes curse more than I should.
I highly dislike public transportation.
I've had my own car since I was 16.
I enjoy driving a manual over an automatic.
I love dogs and only sort of tolerate cats.
I have a thing for any sort of comedy.
I can laugh at almost anything.
I'm a sucker for Romantic Comedies.
I enjoy movies wayy to much.
I have way too many DVDs and gigs of tv shows/movies for when i get bored.
I've been trying to explore and try new things lately.
I know how to swim.
I just moved to Memphis in the beginning of October.
I'm originally from Massachusetts and have lived there for almost 26 years.
I miss Boston, Ma.
I feel pretty out of place here but I'm trying to work around that.
I hate spiders and bugs.
I don't usually play video games but when I do I sort of get addicted for a short period of time.
I have this weird ability to find the best qualities in a person.
I think everyone is special and can bring something worthwhile to the table.
I'm random.
I love ketchup.
I want to sky dive/para sail/bungee jump/go on a hot air balloon ride and travel way more in the near future.
I'd rather drive than fly.
I think I'm amazing at karaoke...in reality, i'm just ok. haha
I use "lol" and "haha" alot when I chat... most of the time I smirk and chuckle to myself because I genuinely find a lot of the stuff i read/write to be funny.
I dislike making phone calls...i'll tell you why some other time.
I'm way to truthful.
I'm indecisive but down for just about anything.
I really enjoy Vietnamese and Asian culture. It took me awhile to remember what it was all about.
I value sarcasm, loyalty, honesty, and humor above alot of other traits.
I say bubbler, wicked, and can talk in a boston accent when needed.
I am a huge New England sports fan.
Most of the good friends I've made in the last 7 years are because of my Fraternity.
I'm not your stereotypical "Frat Boy".
I've watched all the episodes of Criminal Minds, The Office, Scrubs, How I Met Your Mother, The Big Bang Theory, 30 Rock, The King of Queens, Everybody Loves Raymond, Friends, Californication, Dexter, Entourage, Psych, monk, Burn Notice Family Guy, Futurama, The Simpsons, and King of the Hill.
After writing all those TV show titles out.. I've realized I might have watched way too much TV in my time... hahaha
I'm trying to learn how to cook again.
I think Diners, Drive-in's and Dives is a fantastic show.
I'm from the Northeast and I have no idea what mudding is.

I'll add more stuff to this random list later.

**EDIT**
i think I just shared way too much of myself on this site... oops.

What I’m doing with my life

I have goals. I'm trying to complete them.
I'm slowly getting them done.
I'll be at the finish line just like everyone else.

I’m really good at

I'm really good at cheering people up and helping them through their problems and tough times.

I am really amazing at wasting time online.

I'm beyond proficient at answering questions because I know random facts and trivia.

I'm insanely awesome at using google and wiki.

I'm pretty nifty at asking lots of questions to keep a conversation going.

The first things people usually notice about me

I think the first visual thing people notice about me is that I'm decently tall for an Asian guy and I'm a little bigger than average.

Personality wise is that I'm genuinely nice and funny.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love different foods...
Vietnamese, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Indian, American and other ones.. too many to list.

I just like trying new things to see if I like them.

I'm a movie fanatic. I have way too many dvds and movies. I'll watch pretty much anything.

I'm mainly into R&B but I enjoy everything else as long as I'm able to sing to it in my car or shower. I know the lyrics to alot of songs in differing musical genres.

The six things I could never do without

iPhone
MacBook Pro
Car
Internet
good conversation/chatting (AIM, Google Talk, Facebook Chat)
Movies

haha OK I couldn't think of anything for the last 3. I was gonna put Family and friends in there.. but those aren't "things" are they?
But I ALWAYS have the first 3 on me.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

life and the future. I don't have a real plan for life but I liked to think that some things would be in place in the future. I totally understand that the future is never set in stone.

I tend to be self reflective a lot.

On a typical Friday night I am

depending on where I am... I could be out at a party or at a bar/friends house. But most likely I'm home watching a movie or TV.

Yea, I lead a boring life sometimes...

but not always!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

haha yea right, ask me something and you may get the answer to it.

You should message me if

you are looking for someone new to talk to.
need a movie buddy.
you are bored.
you are curious.
you have something funny to say.
Like all the same shit that I do.

you really, really want to and can't stop yourself.