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phonym

27 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 22–33
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:49am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Greek (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"Do I contradict myself? Very well, then I contradict myself, I am large, I contain multitudes."
- Walt Whitman, Song of Self
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I grew up in the East Bay with KPFA left on the car radio. It stuck, a background rumbling against the gap between how things are and how they ought to be. The sound fades in and out as I shift attention between political and personal projects.

I sell my time to Google. I give my time to friends, fun, and doing my part to close that gap. I travel. I occupy. I participate. I like when I make art and other things. I'm putting time into an amazing collective house and urban farm.

I used to teach 6th grade science. Before that I ran a homeless youth drop in center. I studied computer science and cognitive science.

A breakdown of my username (phonym):
Nym: an anonymous name
Phony: fraudulent
Phoneme: a unit of sound in a language
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A pattern with a tendency to repeat itself imperfectly
A physical form
Senses
Memory
Society
Purpose
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Distilling intent into action.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
happy
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.” ― Kurt Vonnegut
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I am in a committed relationship. I am primarily seeking community in my neighborhood and friends with shared interests.

Message me if you have something to add to or cross off of this to-do list:
* Musee Mechanic
* Japanese Garden in Golden Gate park
* Swimming at Baker Beach
* Campaign finance reform
* Kites at the Berkeley Marina
* More biking and camping
* Making more time
* Fireside music and story night
* Exploring
* Building things
* Dinner and board game nights
* East Bay Bike Party
* Interesting lectures