45 Montreal, Quebec, CA
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My self-summary
I'm a product manager at a huge software company as my day job - but my heart is really more in my photography, digital image creation, and making jewellery based on my artwork.

I read a lot, a mix of SF/F, other fiction and non-fiction.

I've been polyamorous for many years, and was one of the founders of the Montreal Poly mailing list back in 2001 - although it's been mostly dormant lately - since my daughter came along it's been a bit more challenging getting involved in that kind of thing. I've been with my 'primary' since 1995, and we had a daughter together in mid-2007. We live with my primary's OSO, who is taking an active parenting role with our daughter. I can highly recommend the 3 parents to 1 child ratio.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm passionate about my photography, image creation and jewellery - I'd love to be able to make it my primary source of income, but I think I've got a ways to go before that happens. I enjoy my day job quite a lot, so I'm not in *that* big a rush.
I’m really good at
I'm pretty good at identifying when two other people think they are talking about the same thing, but actually aren't.

I've had a lot of people be quite effusive about how good I am at massage.

I'm a pretty good cook - I like cooking, and tend to produce pretty good food pretty consistently. I'm also getting pretty good at taking existing recipes and coming up with gluten-free / dairy-free versions of them...
The first things people usually notice about me
The first thing people notice about me are usually my long hair and my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books^H^H^H^H^H Authors: Lois McMaster Bujold, Robert Heinlein, Neil Gaiman, Steven Brust, Roger Zelazny, Edward De Bono, Edward Tufte, Louise Penny, Jo Walton, Charles Stross, Iain M. Banks, John Scalzi, Ann Leckie,

Movies: Princess Bride, Fifth Element, Donnie Darko, many others

Music: Heather Dale, Jethro Tull, The Cruxshadows, most things aside from traditional country.

Games: Fallout (Playing Fallout 4 with my Wife), Starbound (Playing with my daughter), Kerbal Space Program, Carcassone, Pandemic

Food: Thai food - it's all about the coconut milk and the basil, Indian food, interesting pizza prepared on the bbq, very old cheddar.
The six things I could never do without
1: My camera, 2: My laptop (for processing images where-ever I am), 3: My daughter's smile 4: My friends 5: Tea 6: Cheese
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about the composition of images that I'm working on, Issues related to privacy, Issues related to polyamory,
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm not sure that I have a 'typical' friday night - on a given Friday night I could be anything from staying at home and hanging out with the family and/or working on my art, going out for dinner with friends, or going out on a date.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hmm. Among my friends I'm not that private a person... At work, I'm a little less out about certain aspects of my life (poly, for instance).
You should message me if
My life is reasonably full right now - but I would be interested in someone I can get together with 2-4 times a month for a movie, some interesting conversation, games, a bath, or sitting together reading - or reading to each other. If that sounds interesting, drop me a line.