I read a lot, a mix of SF/F, other fiction and non-fiction.
Massage is another hobby - although a number of people have told me I should give up my day job and take up massage full time.
I've been polyamorous for many years, and was one of the founders of the Montreal Poly group in 2001. I've been with my 'primary' since 1995, and we had a daughter together in mid-2007. We live with my primary's OSO, who is taking an active parenting role with our daughter. I can highly recommend the 3 parents to 1 child ratio.
I don't expect anyone I'm seeing to take an active role in my daughter's life - in fact, it would have to be a very serious relationship before I'd consider that.