Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Me: Originally from the southwest, now in my 2nd stint living in
the city (my 1st stint was in college, which sort of counts). I
like exploring NYC in general, but in particular I try to take
advantage of living in such an artsy place - concerts, galleries,
whatever, but the less stuffy the better. That's just the high-brow
stuff, I also like bars and lounges. Or just staying in &
watching or reading something. As much as I love the city, I do
need to escape it from time to time, so I could also use a travel
You: I don't really have a type, but I do like big-hearted girls
who smile a lot and don't take themselves too seriously. Hopefully
your type is a super laid-back guy who’s able to turn that off when
necessary, and who’s almost seven feet tall. And devastatingly
No pressure - relationships develop slowly, if at all, and I'm
always happy to meet new people. But I've found that life's more
fun when I'm sharing it with someone I care about, so if we end up
going that route, even better!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, problem solving, and singing old R&B songs
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm blocking out the sun.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books, movies, tv - Any combination of dark, epic, irreverent,
period (past or future), and/or funny works for me. Christopher
Nolan & Cormac McCarthy are a couple favorites.
Music - pretty weird mix of 80s/90s rap/r&b, classical, &
contemporary instrumental. All-time faves include Bach, Chopin,
Rachmaninoff, Prince, Babyface, Outkast . . .
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, family, variety, discovery, sleep, my phone's Kindle app
(essential for subway rides and waiting rooms)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm a guy, so take a wild guess. That, and I also look for ways to
imbue my life with more meaning & creativity. But mostly the
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think you might like me & I might like you.
You're in NYC or a short train ride away.
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