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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jun 21, 2013
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
What to say in 100 words. Well, at least 100 words... hmmm.....

Looking for someone - but I am not sure who or for what yet. In the meantime I'm looking to widen my circle of friends - both locally and pen pals. I'm looking for connections with people - no expectations other than that.

Say hello.... I can be rather shy until I get to know you, but in general very sociable. Not sure if i'm 48. The calendar says i am, but i don't feel it (yet). I take people as i find them - everybody deserves my respect.

I am almost always in a good mood, and more or less nothing bothers me. I have occasionally had people ask if i am "taking something" as a result of this. Is this a good thing or a bad thing ? you decide...

Fairly broad range of interests.. I enjoy being with friends, traveling, cooking, music (hence the name), reading, I recently discovered photography. I really like movies, but tend to watch very little TV, unless its documentaries, discovery channel, etc. computers, even though i work with them all day.. I'm a very physical person - curl up with somebody to watch a movie and i'm in heaven. I must not forget people watching - one of my favourite hobbies... why do people do the things that they do - to themselves and each other.

I try to take no more than I need...

I've traveled quite a bit over the years - most countries in Europe (I'm from England originally), and I am up to about 20 on my list of US states so far :) New people and places are always interesting. I love wild, unpopulated places...

I work in the computer industry - I like what i do, which I suppose makes me something of a geek. I love the people who i work with - always an intellectual challenge.

What else....

Turn ons
* People who know who they are and are comfortable with themselves
* Intelligent conversation
Turn offs
* People who can always find something to complain about
* People who take themselves, and life, way too seriously
* Bad hygiene

Finally.... you're/your, there/their/they're, should have/should of... etc, etc... Please....

I am Fun, easy going, and somewhat eccentric
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Life is, in general, wonderful....
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm British.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books.. usually a mix of scifi/fantasy, which I read to relax - usually at very high speed. Occasionally historical non-fiction - most recently a history of cryptography/cryptanalysis.. This kind of thing i tend to take some time reading.
Mans search for meaning - V Frankl.
On the food front - anything thats relatively low in carbs... I have very varied tastes in food, and will try most things at least once. The only thing that I will not eat is catfish (that i know of, anyway)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
thinking about that one, but it probably includes
hugs/physical affection
The ocean
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why so many people insist on torturing themselves over things they have no control over. Life is too short to spend it suffering.

There are many ways of living.
one is in fear
one is full of regret
one is in misunderstanding
one is suffering

and there is another...

one of compassion, joy, peace, and Love
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Moderating an online discussion group for insulin pump users..
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
a) You find something you find interesting in my profile
b) you know how to implement Shor's algorithm using parts from common kitchen appliances..
c) You feel a need for someone to chat to
d) you just want to know more....