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51 F Philadelphia, PA

I’m looking for

  • Gay girls only
  • Ages 40–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 13
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has cats
English, Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Being a true Gemini I am a woman with many sides, but I am a kind woman with a good heart -fascinated by learning how others think and why they do what they do, including myself...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Exploring many interests and enjoying the small details of life. Attempting to concentrate on creative pursuits. My primary ambitions are to learn as much and love as much as possible while I'm here….
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, discussing politics, intimate conversations... Color and design... Staring into space and feeling peaceful... Making sure someone I care about has a good time by pampering them....Exploring offbeat places and trying exotic food. Giving foot and hand massages..…. Making a variety of hors devours for company and watching them being devoured.... Becoming really absorbed in new projects, mediums and ideas… being calm…writing down every question that comes to me and finding out the answers. Putting my foot in my mouth… being kind... Crabbing on the bay….
The first things people usually notice about me
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My brown eyes
I'm witty but serious.
I'm unconventional, and would rather ask you how you felt about elementary school than what your retirement plans are.
I'm polite, intelligent, and insightful
I order my food like Elaine Bennett
I get tired at 11pm.
If I'm sitting near a fireplace, I will leave the party to sit by myself in front of it. That said, I'm not boring and others find me compelling.
My compatriots find me artistic
I get extremely excited about learning things
I play the devil's advocate always
If you get close to me you'll find me to be deeply romantic and sexually expressive
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Love NPR, rock, early jazz and standards... Devotchka, Springsteen, Patti Smith…Sinatra…Streisand…Punk...Dylan..classical music...70's pop and disco...
Chuck Palaniuk, Anne Sexton, Donald Ray Pollock, Margaret Atwood, Edward Gorey, Joyce Carol Oates, the New Yorker... 'Strait is the Gate', 'Kinflicks', 'the Gargoyle', 'Green Eggs and Ham', 'No Exit'….'One Art'... Researching the origins of folklore and superstitions. The dictionary and thesaurus are good friends; the grammar and spelling police are on the hunt for me. I dont watch much TV. I'm trying to read 'Anna Karenina'….'a Natural History of the Senses' is a good train trip book. 'Harold and Maude' is one of the happiest films ever made in my opinion. 'Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind', 'Hannah and Her Sisters', 'Another Woman', 'The Shining', 'Eyes Wide Shut', 'Rivers and Tides', 'Rosemary's Baby', ' 'Don't Look Now', Nosferatu', 'The Crying Game', 'Gone with the Wind', 'The Graduate',... Edvard Munch, Bruegel, Laurie deco, old bars, full moons, cats in windows... I open shop doors for animals, disappear in used bookstores, and continuously search for the most unusual cocktail in any city. My fantasy romantic weekend getaway would be the Ice Hotel in Quebec. (If you think the cold can't be romantic, just take a look at that place!) subways scare me but I use them anyway :) I could live in a cheese shop. I've been to heaven and back and will never forget or regret the trip.
My favorite foods are bread and butter, steamed clams with a beer.. grilled cheese, and succotash….they comfort and warm me. I also like mincemeat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Art, wine, my 100 year old plant Priscilla, animals, sex, holding hands
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
psychology, why people aren't as kind as they think they are, sex, and how kismet is going to affect my life next. Also how much I hate emoticons and how annoyingly necessary they seem to be when writing or texting:)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wondering what I want to do and what I have to get done...doing artwork....maybe having dinner with friends...definitely Not the laundry.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My first crush was Karen Carpenter. My current crush is Melissa Clark-(ny times)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a gay female who is intelligent, curious about life, imaginative, assertive yet humble, who is open to a serious relationship if things feel right… who will take the time to get to know the special parts of me that hide behind my perplexing ways.
If people find you eccentric or creative, I'll probably enjoy your company. If you find honesty refreshing and it doesn't make
you too uncomfortable, and you don't mind odd segways in our conversation, you'll probably enjoy mine. If you have an accent no other qualities are required :)
I am looking for a wife (eventually), so I'd like a mate who is interested in marriage. I am a supportive, loving partner and having some traditional values, I believe in building a foundation such as that in which to share joys and sorrows as they come.