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41 F San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 13
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English, Portuguese (Fluently), Italian (Okay), French (Okay), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Just moved to San Francisco a little over 4 years ago and am still discovering this wonderful city. I previously lived in Boston for my schooling at Tufts and sure don't miss the months of bitter cold. I am a busy professional and up for meeting new, interesting people. I love to travel and I speak several languages, own several passports. I have lived abroad in Europe and in South America. I have a multicultural background so I am in good company if someone has ventured out of the shelter of the USA and has dared to live anywhere else. If you speak an additional language it is a definite plus!

I love to dance, the arts, I love to eat healthy food and enjoy fine wine. I am in love with Napa/Sonoma! I also love a Tahoe ski getaway!

I am looking to expand my network of friends and meet some interesting people. Perhaps even "the one"?

I look younger than my chronological age, and it is a double-edged sword. I am too often approached by 20-somethings at social events. I suppose it's related to the great longevity in my family (grandpa almost made it to 106). At work, I navigate enormous responsibility. Would be nice to meet people closer to my age range, though :) Can I escape this doughnut hole? Thought this might be a good place to start.

If you have intellect, culture, and higher education, then I would be pleased to meet you, and hopefully, you are not in your twenties :)
What I’m doing with my life
I work in health care. I guess that makes me compassionate, giving, capable of working long, hard hours, and handling immense pressure. My field challenges me personally to the full extent of my abilities, every day. Therefore, in my free time, I like to enjoy it in the company of fun, stimulating people. A sense of humor is golden.
I’m really good at
Conversation: other words, I have opinions and I'm not afraid to voice them! I speak 5 languages, so I suppose I'm good at this, too.
People seek me out for advice frequently.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I look exotic. I get asked where I am from many times a day.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Love in the times of Cholera, anything from Gabriel Garcia Marquez. The Alchemist. Pablo Neruda. Tolkien. Blink. The Tipping Point. Atlas Shrugged.

Movies: so many! Amelie, Talk to Her, Almodovar movies, Elite troupe, The Motorcycle diaries, Bourne series. Cinema Paradiso, Life is Beautiful, The Postman, The Lives of Others. The Diving Bell and the Butterfly.

Food: I'm a big meat eater. Tried vegetarian and didn't last a week, though I respect people who have that self-discipline. Love Brazilian food, Pho soup on a cold day, Peruvian food, and Thai food.

I don't watch TV...I consider it "chewing gum for the brain"

Music: anything but gangsta rap and country. I like bossa nova, jazz, classical music, funk, dance, electronica, latin music.
The six things I could never do without
Being near the Ocean. Sunshine. Sleep. Food. Good friends with a positive aura. My independence! And, the occasional getaway trip (ok that's seven!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why does time accelerate through life? How can you make it slow down or stop?
On a typical Friday night I am
My Fridays are never typical. It always changes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ok, here is one: I think humility in a successful person is incredibly attractive. Braggarts are boring.

My biggest pet peeve: the California lukewarm, watered-down "yes". In the East Coast and Europe, YES means yes. Not maybe. Not yes for now until I find something else I want to do. Otherwise, just say no. Or, say "let me get back to you once I figure out my day." Say what you mean, and DO what you say. It shows good character.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 32–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
If you appreciate intellect, culture, class, and a healthy sense of humor. You are in your thirties or forties. You are not married. Your luggage/baggage maximum does not exceed 30 lbs ;) Your profile picture is not of your elbow or your abs.