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pichico

34 / M / Straight / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:04am
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 7″ (2.01m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Keywords: Silly, intuitive, smart, aware, literate, pragmatic, mercurial, curious, efficient, extroverted introvert, INFJ.

"His heart danced upon her movements like a cork upon a tide. He heard what her eyes said to him from beneath their cowl and knew that in some dim past, whether in life or reverie, he had heard their tale before."
―James Joyce (Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man)

"The breeze is cool and the sky blue. I love this life with abandon and wish to speak of it boldly: it makes me proud of my human condition. Yet people have often told me: there’s nothing to be proud of. Yes, there is: this sun, this sea, my heart leaping with youth, the salt taste of my body and this vast landscape in which tenderness and glory merge in blue and yellow."
―Albert Camus

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"It is the same life, whether spent crying or laughing."
―Japanese proverb
What I’m doing with my life
Work (I'm a global program manager for a big advertising company)
Travel worldwide (see photos)
Meditation (it keeps me in the here and now)
Plant medicine (I have a garden and cabinet full of rare and magical herbs)
Biking and exercise (as much as possible)
Enjoying my home (a bit of a homebody)
Cuddling with my kitties (and you)
Cooking mouth-watering delights

I refuse to let gravity get in the way of a good time.
I’m really good at
Fixing things
Organizing things
Networking
Traveling
Fashion
Internets
Intuition
Smiles that make you wanna smile back
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm tall, but I dress well and move gracefully.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Recently read:
- The Bell Jar
- The Brief and Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao
- This is How You Lose Her
- WH Auden (collected poetry)
- John Donne (collected poetry)

I wonder what would have happened if Esther Greenwood and Holden Caulfield had met some cold night in New York City. Would they have been able to share a slightly better life together than they had alone?

Movies: Very easily entertained. Lately I've been into old Hitchcock films, new superhero flicks, and whatever crap they have on the airplane.

Shows: Went to see "We Will Rock You", the Queen musical, in London a month or so ago. It was great. I really want to see "Book of Mormon". Saw Cat Power, Tame Impala, and Animal Collective over the last few months. And you can't beat The Freeze.

Music: Listening a lot lately to Cat Power, Bob Dylan, Jack White, Regina Spektor, Mike Doughty, and Queen. Huge and diverse music collection.

Food: Italian, Indian, and Thai lately. I've developed quite a taste for smart Italian cocktails. I love to cook and prefer eating in to going out.
The six things I could never do without
Cats
Companionship
Solitude
Great food
Big laughs
Satisfying work
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Working less and accomplishing more.
Designing self-managing systems.
Understanding who I am and where I stand in the struggle.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually something chill with friends, or a night in after a long week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Freddie Mercury is my spirit animal.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You're a genuine, caring person who vibes with what you're reading here. You're fit, mentally and physically. You're emotionally self-aware (which does not mean unemotional). You like to be upside-down. You're a little geeky. You don't mind getting funky. You know how to make commitments that you can keep.

You might notice that I'm pretty tall, but experience has shown that interesting logistics are possible between the tall and the short. And I don't mean just sexually.

You have the capacity for tenderness.

You're not a romantic tourist, collecting as many pleasant and fulfilling experiences as possible, and, balking at the first sign of depth in a relationship, moving on to the next paramour in your inbox.