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28 Oakland, CA Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 27
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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anarchaqueer, decolonial, anti-assimilationist. queer not gay, nonbinary, anti-zionist jewish.

upping the anti.

i like cats, beer, whiskey, sweets, sometimes punk, sometimes not.

i sometimes write poetry or things that closely resemble poetry.
i sometimes go to open mic.
i sometimes go dancing.
What I’m doing with my life
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i work a desk job and am trying not to be swallowed up by it. i just made fudge for the first time and it was delicious. reading hella sci fi, and sherman alexie. making meaningful connections and smashing white supremacist capitalist cis/heteropatriarchy
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
abstractions, haterade, critique, utopian dreams. silly jokes. sometimes poop jokes.
The first things people usually notice about me
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some people say i'm intimidating. most people see that i'm short. i hold the contradiction.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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my favorite book of all time is tekkonkinkreet.

fiction: Sherman Alexie, Octavia Butler, Margaret Atwood, hunger games, harry potter, his dark materials, Toni Morrison, James Baldwin

Nonfic: Andrea Smith, INCITE!, Scott Morgensen, Jasbir Puar, Chandra Mohanty, Judith Butler, Jack Halberstam, Michel Foucault, Lisa Duggan, Jose Munoz, Sara Ahmed, Dean Spade. Haunani-Kay Trask. Captive Genders.

Movies: Sin Nombre, Y Tu Mama Tambien, Princess Mononoke, Techonkinkreet, Amores Perros, Harry Potter, Osama, Clockwork Orange, Suicide Club, The Dreamers, Science of Sleep, Love Me If You Dare, Turtles Can Fly, My Neighbor Totoro, Spirited Away, Howl's Moving Castle

Music: Rye Rye, Missy, Abandon, Coughs, Songs for Moms, M.I.A., Azealia Banks, Fannypack, bunch of other random stuff

Food: Fried tofu. Fried pickles. Fried okra. Fried eggplant. Fried everything. Thanks. donuts. bagels. pizza. ice cream. most things sweet. eggs are sooooo good.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fried foods
My kitties
My bus pass
My library card
A stove
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
anti-authoritarianism, colonialism, consent, governmentality, power. sex. patriarchy. gender. food. butts.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
eating pizza and drinking beer. or going to shabbat. or doing both.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i used to volunteer for planned parenthood. no, seriously.
You should message me if
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you got good politix.
you think i'm cute.
you like dancing.
you wana watch a movie.
you wana cook sometime.
you wana buy me an IPA.
you feel otherwise inclined.