I'm an IT consultant, but not one of those introverted, pocket protector kind of computer geeks. I have a sense of style which includes all of my socks being hole-free, I know how to use my tools to improve things (mechanically or esthetically), and I get an equal number of eye-rolls and laughs with my sarcastic sense of humour...sometimes at my expense. My family is a collection of smart-asses, so I can thank them for that.
One obstacle I have to overcome is tearing a six string guitar from its home on the stand in the corner of my living room to learn more than three chords. Still workin' on that...
I'm a modern, yet old-fashioned kind of guy. I believe we both deserve to have any careers we wish and either, both of us can choose to cook, clean or be handy with tools, but I'm still going to open doors for you and bring you flowers. This is one thing on which I won't budge.
If you can live with that, I'd like to hear from you.