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31 F Pittsburgh, PA

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jul 26
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats

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My self-summary
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Strong, independent, resourceful, resilient. Creative, curious, feisty, intense.

I enjoy a good, strong cup of coffee over almost anything.

Or a really great book.

Equal parts introvert and extrovert. Maybe one part non sequitor - the rest you'll have to figure out for yourself.
What I’m doing with my life
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I wait tables to pay the bills (and actually enjoy it, for the most part), but in the meantime:

I write, a lot. Incessantly. It is the one thing I could not do without.

I read, pretty constantly.

Eventually, I'd like to re-enroll in college, because I'm a total psychology-geek.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Comforting when someone needs comforting. I have a pretty strong nurture-bone, it seems.

On the other hand, I'm also really good at finding humor in the most inappropriate of situations.

Kind of like how, when I typed the first sentence, I sort of wanted to make a "that's-what-she-said" joke. But then didn't. Then did, just now.

The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm apparently incredibly short.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like almost everything Bret Easton Ellis has written. "The Unbearable Lightness of Being" has solidly remained at my top-five for years, now. "House of Leaves" is another favorite. Recently, I really fell in love with "The Dog Stars," which sparked a sudden streak of reading post-apocalyptic fiction. Memoir of all stripes continually fascinates me, as well as anything related to psychology and research.

I don't watch much television, but I have an unabashed and unashamed zeal for the re-imagined Battlestar Galactica. More recently: It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia and Archer.

As far as music, I'll keep it brief and say that I have my top-tier favorites that have remained unchanged for years, but I have an affinity for dream-pop, shoegaze, trip-hop, anything with heavy reverb, garage rock, some punk, and, more days than not, really shitty pop-rap. I can't help it. It's like the musical version of watching soap operas: helplessly addictive.

Food? Not much else makes me happier than going out to eat with friends. I eschew the label of "foodie" but I do enjoy expanding my tastes, though, to be honest, there are days I'm entirely content with ramen noodles and the frozen mac n cheese I keep nearly always on stock. Also, nothing beats a good peanut-butter-banana sandwich.

Don't get me started on movies. I'm the girl that everyone is always pointing fingers at and screaming, "Wait, what? You haven't seen that?" Recently, I really enjoyed all three of these entirely disparate movies: Prometheus, Beasts of the Southern Wild...and, yes, Get Him to the Greek.

Varied tastes. I like to keep life interesting, that way.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music (no one has ever listed that, ever.)
Humor (mostly of the off-key variety)
My wonderfully creative and amazing friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The impending apocalypse.

...Just kidding.

I do tend to have a very serious side. I am constantly trying to figure out ways to better my life and be more creative. I believe in constantly pushing myself and growing as a person.

After all this introspection, I am usually exhausted, and start thinking about food. Or good coffee.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Slinging food and wine! Afterward, I'm usually drinking a beer with a friend or two to un-wind.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Nicki Minaj is somehow both attractive and repellent to me.
You should message me if
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You can laugh at life's absurdities and still get a little bit complex, along the way.

You're looking to get to know someone and see if it could develop in to something more.

Also, as an addendum, I have to note: bisexual, for me, does not equal "easy" or "I would like to have a three-some."

I am open to love, no matter what the gender. In other words, I'm a Monogamy. Yes, that's the word. I'm into that.