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pilgrimpilgrim

26 Brooklyn, NY Gender Nonconforming

Gender Nonconforming

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:38pm
Orientation
Queer
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Vegan
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Status
Single
Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English, Hebrew, Latin

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a femme queer looking for other queer friends, companions, and/or dates.

I like to cook breakfast
obsessed with Fig Newmans
high school English teacher
used to be southerner (Memphis)
used to be Jewish Studies grad student
used to be

I miss the South.

INFJ
2 on the enneagram
mother at heart
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to be kind and tender and honest and intentional and just
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
always being willing to try things again
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my face and neck turn beet red when I'm embarrassed
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
"Oh no, I thought. If he has never heard of enemas or deconstruction, we are doomed." --Sarah Schulman

The Fire Next Time and all James Baldwin, "Gimpel the Fool," Beloved, Invisible Man, Kindred, Mrs Dalloway, Just Kids by Patti Smith, Francesca Lia Block, José Esteban Muñoz, Saga Series, Kafka, Dykes to Watch Out For, Virginia Woolf, Kate Bornstein, Thom Gunn, Adrienne Rich, Eileen Myles.

Totally Fucked Up, My Neighbor Totoro, Muriel's Wedding, and The Hours when I wanna cry. Watching To Wong Foo with my mother as a kid was formative.

X-Files, Roseanne, and Seinfeld, exclusively.

BEYONCE, sad and/or angry female vocalists, noise, new wave, no wave, Prince, Bjork, Patti Smith

spicy food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
toothbrush, kitchen, community, my body pillow, walking to get to places, alone time.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
humility
educational justice
anti-oppression teaching
liberation
how to make myself more visibly queer
how to upset the status quo
I don't like cake
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
wine and mac n cheese
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like the smell of stinky pits.
I think that any person wearing a jock strap looks incredibly sexy.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are critical of the american dream, durable romance, and other myths
or you like 90s television shows