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28 / M / straight / Single

Las Cruces, New Mexico

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am Funny, Smart, and Loyal.

My Self-Summary

I am fun to hang out with and if you are my friend I will do almost anything to help you out. I like to have a good time and I love to laugh. Honestly, I'm always laughing about something.

That's not to say I can't be serious, but it does say is I choose to find the positive outlook of a situation rather than succumb to the negative. I spent way too much of my teen years depressed and only seeing the negative.

Now that I'm older i see the futility of being so depressed. I wish I had not been such a Debbie downer back then. I could have been very popular, sadly i hated myself. I've learned to love who I am since then and I have moved on.

Its great to know yourself and who you are. If you don't you can never truly be happy at anything. Its one of the most important part of growing up. Find out who you are and what you like and go for it with everything you have.

What I’m doing with my life

Currently I am a property manager and work tech-support. Also I've been trying to maintain a healthier situation in my life by eating right, exercising and hanging out with friends and traveling. Which is a bit more difficult than I thought do to my natural tendency to be at rest.

I’m really good at

Talking to anyone at any time in any place. I can make conversation with anyone else who is willing.

The first things people usually notice about me

My friendly face and willingness to make new friends.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I am a huge fan of Science Fiction and True stories. Music genres i enjoy are trip hop, alt rock, acid jazz and electronica.

Books: Orson Scott Card's "Ender's Game" Series and "Treason"
Frank Herbert's "Dune"
Alfred Bester's "The Stars My Destination"
And many more but those are the 3 I can think of off the top of my head.

As far as movies go there are far to many to name so I will just name the films I have seen this year in the theater:
District 9 or The 4th Kind (Tied for 1st.)
Watchmen
Moon
Star Trek
Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince
Cloudy With a Chance of Meatballs
Paranormal Activity

As Far as Music goes, i have stated my favorite genres but here are some of my favorite bands:
Jamiroquai
Moodorama
Daft Punk
Goldfrapp
La Roux
The Ting Tings
Radiohead
Destination Wilderness
Junkie XL
The Helio Sequence
Royksopp
MGMT

Food I love almost all food, But after living here in S. NM i cannot go with out green and red Chile. That fruit is proof that God loves us.

The six things I could never do without

Honestly, I have left this one blank as its taken me a while to think of six things i could never do w/ out (other than the obvious stuff like needed for survival).

Mobility: Mobility beyond my own 2 legs. (which i'm thankful for!) Whether that be Bicycle or Car or what have you.

Entertainment: Not just electronic entertainment. But some form of mind distraction.

Well and that is all I have so far. I'm sure with a bit more pondering I will come up with four more things I could never do without.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Well I used to wish with all my heart that I had mutant powers!

On a typical Friday night I am

Usually I find myself with a quiet night at home. Sometimes I hang out with my friends, or go to the movies or a bar. Friday is about having fun and making the weekend count. Not that it always happens that way. But it is a great goal :)

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Sex doesn't make me happy. If I have sex with someone I need to have an emotional connection. Otherwise it may as well be masturbation.

You should message me if

you are looking for someone to have a great time with. I enjoy a good conversation and find that truly successful relationships often requires a friends first approach. If you are looking to create an actual connection I would love to hear from you.