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30 F Castro Valley, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:39pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
I want to be healthy in the mind, body, and soul. This year I promise myself that I will work on improving who I am and what I strive to be. I bought a bunch of books to give my mind the imagination I lost along the way and I'm truly enjoy reading before bed. I try to be active as possible to get the blood flowing by going to the gym regularly and add in some bikram yoga. Planning to go hiking and bouldering on the weekends because I have a Costa Rican trip coming up. Towards the end of the day, I come home to my adorable male poodle and play with him until he tires out. The simple things in life bring out the greatest joys.
What I’m doing with my life
Searching for my cutie pie cause it is cold at night and I need someone to cuddle with, haha. On a serious note, just working the daily grind so Uncle Sam can get his share of pie. Trying to squeeze in as much fun as I can on our short weekends :p YOLO is the new motto.
I’m really good at
Making you laugh at the most inappropriate moments and giving you warm hugs when you need it the most. Always be there to hold your hands to let you know I'm there.
The first things people usually notice about me
People think I am very approachable because I smile all the time and willing to offer help. The world, little by little seems to lost its humanity. The small gestures of kindness goes a long way.

My legs obviously. I do cardio daily and the occasional run every so often so my legs are going to be toned. I guess my peeps before me worked in the rice paddies too much and I got the genes for toned legs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite Books: Just finished Shanghai Girls (okay) and starting Message from an Unknown Chinese Mother.

Favorite Movies: Up, Frozen, This Is The End, Pineapple Express, Superbad, Speed, Miss Congeniality, True Lies, Terminator Series, Aliens Series, Titanic.... endless

Favorite Shows: Seinfield, Friends, Big Bang Theory, The Chew, How I Met Your Mother, Modern Family

Favorite Music: I use Spotify for my variety of music. Favorites are Eminem, Kanye West, Jay-Z, Timbaland, T.I., Britney Spears, Justin Timberlake, Mariah Carey, Rihanna, and Linkin Park.

Favorite Foods: Sandwiches or finger foods. Always on the go so no time to fiddle with the knife and fork when driving.

I really like soup and sandwiches which goes hand in hand. Favorites soups would be chicken tortilla and tomato bisque.

I'm not a picky eater so I'm down for anything. I'm not into fine dining as long as there is great company to be with. Heck we can share a 20 pc. McNugget for all I care but let not make it a habit since I will probably hit the gym after that.
The six things I could never do without
The six essential items for my eternal happiness are:
1.) Family and Friends to keep me sane through my tough times
2.) Warm Comfortable Bed to snuggle in and get my beauty sleep ;P
3.) iPhone to keep me up to date and entertained
4.) Exercise to keep me fit and healthy plus a really hot shower afterwards
5.) Delicious homecook meals made with love <3
6.) You fill in the blank ..... [<3]
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life in general. Our existence and the pain that mankind endures to achieve exactly what by the end of the day. Someone once told me pain is inevitable but suffering is optional. Suffering is indeed optional, but it is that emotional experience that is unforgettable. Life, itself, is up in the air, nothing determined until it happens. All I want in life is to enjoy the simple pleasures and be in the pureness of others. No games, no drama, just be real.
On a typical Friday night I am
You + Me = Not so typical Friday night (wink wink <3)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love Costco. Maybe you can take me out to dinner? I guarantee I will pick the most expensive item on the menu :p I think I will get that slice of pizza with the hot dog combo!!! Plus the berry yogurt for a complete three course meal :)
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You can make me smile all the time and enjoy rigorous outdoor activities. It is spring/summer after all, time to bask in all it's beauty.

Preference: Chinese only.