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31 Castro Valley, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I want to be healthy in the mind, body, and soul. This year I promise myself that I will work on improving who I am and what I strive to be. I bought a bunch of books to give my mind the imagination I lost along the way. I try to be active as possible to get the blood flowing by going to the gym regularly and add in some Crossfit along with a pole. It's the adrenaline rush that keeps me coming back :)
What I’m doing with my life
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Searching for my cutie pie cause it is cold at night and I need someone to cuddle with, haha. On a serious note, just working the daily grind so Uncle Sam can get his share of pie. Trying to squeeze in as much fun as I can on our short weekends :p YOLO is the new motto.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making you laugh at the most inappropriate moments and giving you warm hugs when you need it the most. Always be there to hold your hands to let you know I'm there.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People think I am very approachable because I smile all the time and willing to offer help. The world, little by little seems to lost its humanity. The small gestures of kindness goes a long way.

My legs obviously. I was approached by this homeless man at Safeway in the Castro District and he kept asking me questions, whether I exercised and how I keep my legs toned. Seriously?!?! I thought he was going to ask me for change or maybe he wasn't homeless after all. It was dark, don't judge.

I change colors with my environment. I'm standard winter pale and can go to chocolate brown. One time, I was mistaken as Mexican. Got skillz ;P
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Books: Going to give 50 Shades of Grey another try cause the movie is going to come out soon. Was bored the first 20 pages or so. Let me see what the old ladies are talking about :p

Favorite Movies: Up, Frozen, This Is The End, Pineapple Express, Superbad, Speed, Miss Congeniality, True Lies, Terminator Series, Aliens Series, Titanic.... endless

Favorite Shows: blackish, Modern Family, The Chew, TMZ, Big Bang Theory, Fresh Off the Boat

Favorite Music: Wiz Khalifa, T.I., Drake, Linkin Park, Britney Spears, plus many more.

Favorite Foods: Sandwiches or finger foods. Always on the go so no time to fiddle with the knife and fork when driving. I'm not a picky eater so I'm down for anything. I'm not into fine dining as long as there is great company to be with. Heck we can share a 20 pc. McNugget for all I care but let not make it a habit since I will probably hit the gym after that.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The six essential items for my eternal happiness are:
1.) Family and Friends to keep me sane through my tough times
2.) Warm Comfortable Bed to snuggle in and get my beauty sleep ;P
3.) Smartphone- Android> iphone (from iphone 4s to Samsung 5s)
4.) Exercise to keep me fit and healthy plus a really hot shower afterwards
5.) Delicious homecook meals made with love <3
6.) You fill in the blank ..... [<3]
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking of my next meal. I'm quite simple when it comes to food. I'm not a foodie, but I do enjoy something tasty and palate stimulating. I enjoy meals that are healthy, bold in flavors, and has a bunch of texture that it is a party in my mouth. At the moment are lettuce cups and Vietnamese rice noodle bowls.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You + Me = Not so typical Friday night (wink wink ;) )
You should message me if
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Just Do It!

Disclaimer: Prefer Chinese only. Please don't ask. Preference is preference. I don't need to try all colors of the rainbow to know what I like.