39 Madison, WI
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My self-summary
I am trying to find the right words to use in this because I seem to be drawing as blank. How am I to describe myself to someone so that I may be or seem to be more appealing? I guess honesty is always the best policy.

So let me start off with that. I'm not posturing, testosterone driven alpha male male muscle heads who likes to pick fights and strut around like I'm the master of the world....

I don't like bullies or macho-ego's. I despise misogyny, sexism, racism, and homophobia/transphobia. I'm a lover not a fighter so, if you can accept that then we're on the right track.

I'm a basic Working Class individual I like to drink a beer and smoke a blunt. I am employed. I'm kinda tall, kinda skinny, kinda awkward, yet, I'm totally chill. .

I don't think women are a lesser sex nor do I see them as being second class citizens or just another notch on a bed post like most douche bag males.

I believe in women having the right to choose what they do with their own bodies and no one should ever take that away.

There's much more to discuss but I'll leave that for our first face to face connection.
What I’m doing with my life
Does anyone really know what they are doing with their lives? I hangout with my daughter and my friends. I'm in a complex punk band called "!Allez!/!Allez!" and I'm being active in social justice issues. I work and I survive...
I’m really good at
I'm good at various things, cooking vegan/vegetarian food.
Telling stories of people I know who have had an impact on my life and spreading there advice as well as what I've learned.
Trying to find common ground with what ever obstacle I come across in the present. And, hopefully aiming for a bright future with someone .
The first things people usually notice about me
I have no idea what to answer here. I'm clueless to this question. You can help me out and tell me, because I would really like to know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read a lot mostly books about social justice and some comic books as well as poetry.
I like horror films, comedies and documentaries.

I listen to music mostly Riot-folk (folk music with a punk rock twist) bluegrass, or regular folk mostly stuff like Billy Bragg, Phil Ochs, Woody Guthrie, Utah Phillp's, David Rovics, Slim Ceasna's Auto Club, and so many others. I also like old school punk and hardcore! I like a lot of hip hop that's positive stuff from the 80's. I'm not down for music that objectifies and uses misogynist or sexist overtones while speaking about the female gender. Stuff like The Coup, Dead Prez, Run DMC, Heavy D, Slick Rick, EPMD, Train of Thought, Lupe Fiasco, Brother Ali, Dyme Def. and then i like some Soul music from the 70's a bit of disco here a bit of 80's new wave synth-pop there. If I like it I'll listen to it.
The six things I could never do without
Friends/family, food, books, music, nature, companionship.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to be the best person I can be. Because if I've learned anything its this, being well liked will get you further than talent.
On a typical Friday night I am
Rollin with my comrades. Band practice or chilling with my daughter.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ha ha ha ha. Nice try. No Dice on this one.
You should message me if
Message me if you can choose to accept me on the termsas stated in my profile, as I hope to accept you at yours. I don't wan't to compete for moral high ground or anything like that. I strongly believe that in any relationship we encounter that we are equally responsible for making whatever goes between us as positive and as amazing as we can for the both of us. If you can accept that and feel like it's an adventure you might wanna take.. Let me know...