I am a 'glass half empty' kind of gal....that believes in refills. That is to say, I don't always look at the positive side of things, but i believe in being honest with myself and others, and that THERE IS ALWAYS HOPE. I'm not really a negative person even though it may seem that way at first glance.

I work graveyard shift, so i am "A" "double S" backwards, and it suits me. :)

What does one say in a place like this...... I believe that if we all treated others as we would like to be treated, this world would be a much nicer place to shop! jk about the shopping.

I am honest to a fault and answer most peoples questions that way. If I think something is none of your business (yet) I'll let you know that, clearly, but won't be mad or rude.

I am intense, loving, and strong
Oh and i don't do drama! i have no time or place in my life for drama

procrastinating - and trying to talk myself out of it. there are a lot of things on my to do list that i am just not getting done, i tend to be a one thing at a time and then move on person and life doesn't always allow you that luxury. i am trying to make that adjustment but it is a process and i may be dragging my feet =)

i am really good at being me. i am a good listener. there are a few other things i am good at.

I'm real, and happy about it.

From there it depends on if we meet face-to-face, or via phone or email.

Face to face: Most people probably notice that i am overweight. Lets all be honest, the first time you see me you will be using the sense of sight. if you get beyond that most men claim they notice my eyes or my lips.

If we meet electronically you will probably notice I'm quick with a come back and have a sarcastic sense of humor, and i am a good listener

books:[the ragamuffin gospel,][ the Bible,] and what to do with the rest of my life
movies: i like all kinds of movies any that aren't star wars or jurasic park never wanted to see either of them
music: i listen to[ country ]most of the time but i like blues rock pop and some heavy metal
food: favorite is< pan pizza>

some things that make me happy;
my granddaughter
good conversation
good friends
being with people who make me laugh
my kids
the rest of my family for the most part lol
good music
a quiet night alone with a full moon and a blanket to watch from
writing poems
sewing and designing clothes
drawing and actually being able to get what is in my head on the paper and have it look the same both places
pan pizza from pizza hut
[cooking] i always have a song in my heart when i am in my kitchen cookin' up something for family or friends
getting to know my kids better-long talks about what is on their hearts (they are awesome people!)
putting a smile on peoples faces

have learned the hard way that even what we think we can't do without can be done without , and in the end we will be just fine without it .

how to change what needs changing in my life, sorry nothing noble or profound.

working, spending time with my family or out at the local watering hole

like i said if you want to know just ask me , i don't think there is an answer i could put here that wouldn't give you some kind of wrong impression lol and the drug use is an occasional smoking a joint- don't do it regularly and don't do any other drugs, just like to chill once in a while with friends. just so you know i am not an addict and i don't do hard drugs. i personally think pot should be legalized.

you are over 35 years of age and want something other than someone to talk dirty to you and or webcam dirty pics -- not interested in young men i have a son 25 and if you are younger than that and want any of the above i think that is just CREEPY, it is my opinion and if you like older women that is not going to change my opinion