I'm me and that's all I can be. You can't have a good relationship unless a friendship is established. If you aren't interested in establishing a friendship, you should keep moving. Things are much better between friends ;)
Between working and taking care of my family, there's not much time for myself. If you don't want a broke woman, you gotta deal with a busy woman ;) I like to get out and have fun, but I also have responsibilities that I take seriously.