**also, not looking to date anyone else right now, friends only, thanks--Dec. 2014**
***my situation is a bit complicated. I am technically married but we are separated (romantically/intimately). We will still be living together for the time being for our son and so that i may finish school. There is no issue in my dating others, etc. However, I am NOT looking for a casual hookup or anything of that sort. I am interested in deeper connections/ relationships,but i don't want to rush any involvement and would probably prefer to keep things open longer than most people might(sept 2014)***
For a while now I have been trying to explain to others something about myself that I could not find a word for. Recently, I have found a word to describe this: I am a sapiosexual.
I have a child-like enthusiasm about me and a sense of wonder about the world.
I'd say I'm fairly nerdy/geeky and get along well with those types
I feel very deeply but am logical at the same time, sometimes its a bit of a push/pull with
my heart and my head. However, usually my head wins.
I am very honest. And I want honesty from others, even if it hurts me. There
is no reason to lie. The truth will come out in the end anyway...
why waste someones time? If someone doesn't like something about
you, and they are willing to let it come between you, it will
Id rather be hated for something I truly am,
than loved for something I am not.
I am highly honorable and ethical by nature. Sometimes to my own detriment.
I try to live my life in a way that if I were to get hit by a bus tomorrow, I would have no
I love to experience life to the fullest I can. This does
not mean I value experience over doing the right thing. I always
try to do the right thing in my life, even if that means I have to
sacrifice something 'fun' or 'interesting', etc.
I find good communication to be of utmost importance in any
I like people who are unique and not
afraid to be themselves. Being different is a GOOD thing!
I tend to think about everything and anything, always analyzing and coming up
with my own theories. My mind is always going! So is my heart.
I want to learn for the rest of my life! I adore knowledge. I find most subjects fascinating in one way or another.
I'm am a very passionate person, I have a tendency to put everything I have into everything I do.
I am very determined, live with conviction, and once I decide on a goal I waste no time in fulfilling it.. full steam ahead! This trait tends to come off as being the opposite of 'go with the flow', I have a directive.. Im intense and I fight hard for things I want in life. If you are looking for someone very easy going Im probably not your girl; though I can be that at times, naturally I have a more serious, systematic approach to life/problem solving.
I am an independent thinker: I tend to think things through for myself rather than just accept anything at face value or because someone said so. This and the above traits, make me a bit of a challenge. If you want someone easy, where you dont have to put much work into the relationship, Im also not your gal. I can be crazy, fun, and colorful... joking often, as well as very silly and goofy.. but Im not easy. If I love you, I will work hard to make the relationship a success. I want the same. I admire those who think for themselves and fight for the things they believe in/want/think etc.
Very versatile. I'm a little bit of everything and looking for the same.
Ive had a lot of life experience, this can be both a good and a bad thing,
But I like to see it as that I learned a lot. Which is a good
I laugh. a lot. Because I find humor in everyday life.
And ffor those of you who remember okc's three word thing: I am curious, intense, and quirky