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44 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–48
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 4
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I grew up in the NE, but I’ve assimilated nicely by ditching my umbrella, learning website stuff, using my bicycle as a mode of transportation, and exploring the amazing landscapes of the NW. I don’t even jaywalk much these days. My east coast friends make fun of me now by playing ‘spot the Seattleite’ and pointing at me as I wait for the light to change. I suppose this is how I know I’ve arrived.

I figured I’d fit in, though, in a place with so many amazing nerdy folks. This has proven to be an excellent place for someone with a taste for sci-fi, random geography knowledge, a pile of board games, and bad science jokes (A neutron walks into a bar...), among other things. I’m perhaps a nerd with a small ‘n’, but that may depend on your perspective.

Socially, I'm a contradiction of sorts - introverty, but crave social stuff. I treasure the down time and its magical rejuvenating powers, but I’m not shy, and I’m a much happier person with meaningful human contact.

I also play the bass, I'm a travel nut, and I’m really good at directions. I'm patient, I listen, and I'm always learning. And I dance. Here and there.

- Just noticed: I seem to have been rated über-adventure dude by OKCupid. This is somewhat inaccurate. I've never thrown myself out of a plane, I don't play extreme sports, I don't say 'gnarly' or 'bitchin', and I don't drink Mountain Dew. Granted, I have hiked in the mountains, I've driven on the left side of the road (NZ), and I ate haggis once (Scotland), so that's something!
What I’m doing with my life
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If I'm not using a computer to make websites behave properly, I’m pursuing a mixture of indoor and outdoor activities, cycling around town, and enjoying the weirdness of Seattle. Quality time with my favorite people is essential, and I'm often looking for ways of making the next travel idea a reality.

I try to live by the wisdom and spirit of the quote “Dance like nobody’s watching”, and not just when I’m dancing. I'm also quite fond of this one: “Boycott shampoo! Demand the real poo!”
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- dorkiness
- compliments
- buying plane tickets
- not being judgmental
- photography
- frisbee throwing
- eating green foods
- teaching the rules of games
- not getting pissed and turning evil when I lose games
- absorbing random bits of information
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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This is a work in progress, but here's what I have so far:

Music: Talking Heads, The Pixies, Thievery Corporation, funk, blues, New Wave-y 80s, and much more. Just discovered a couple of Aussie bands - Tame Impala, and the Bamboos.
Movies: Anything with a great story and well-developed characters. Some of my faves are Groundhog Day, Office Space, Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Dr. Strangelove, Safety Not Guaranteed, Lost in Translation, and Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind.
TV: I don't watch too much, but the amazing season 2 of Orange is the New Black is consuming a good chunk of my down time. Breaking Bad and Mad Men are favorites, and I was somewhat addicted to Lost and Firefly in their heydays.
Books: Just read Bill Bryson's A Short History of Nearly Everything. Sooooooo good. Some other random faves: Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Paris 1919: Six Months That Changed the World.
Food: Almost anything, including sushi, Mexican, Indian, Thai, Vietnamese, and coffee
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Six things that come to mind:
Board Games
Amazing peeps

And 8 other cool things: Cycling, soccer, Scottish accents, iTunes, my camera, my bass guitar, shared experiences, fond memories.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the mind-blowing idea that the universe is mostly empty space, and how amazing it is that we're all alive in the non-empty space and can do cool stuff.
You should message me if
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You're thoughtful, confident, physically active in some form, and aren't afraid of your dorky side. If you can be sassy without being mean-spirited. If you’re in touch with who you are, and what excites you. Stripey socks definitely a good thing. Oh, and if you like coffee, that's pretty cool, too.