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28 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 19
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Don't need a minister to call me a groom.
What I’m doing with my life
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enjoying here
considering there
building logic
drowning in technology
reading writing reading writing
messing with people's expectations
finding the humor
making up dance moves
collecting noisy artifacts
having weird dreams in the morning
remembering them mid-afternoon
experimenting in the kitchen
burning myself
making sure I don't live in the Truman Show
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
poker faces
The first things people usually notice about me
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I guess I get plenty of comments on my glasses.
More recently my beard has been earning critical acclaim.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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In general, shit is shit.
It goes similarly for great things, and so as a man of imperceptibly refined tastes, I don't like to talk about genres when it can be avoided.

Stranger in a Strange Land, Hardboiled Wonderland and the End of the World, Steppenwolf.

Wet Hot American Summer, Clockwork Orange.

Freaks n Geeks, Cowboy Bebop, Arrested Development.

Tom Waits, David Bowie, Zeppelin
T.Rex, The Strokes, Fugazi
Daft Punk, Nujabes, Sonny Rollins
Mike Patton, RATKICKER, Nels Cline
Pixies, Smiths, Pavement, El

I <3 good food. Cooking it, ordering it, sharing it. It's the only way.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'd rather think of myself as adaptable, but okay...

bodies: of moving water.
Alice: a 1968 fender mustang. yes I named it. you're weird.
friends: what can I say, I'm lucky to know them.
books: better than the internet in so many many ways.
real people: the ones that dgaf about what you think makes sense. For example, Jim Henson.
and real good kissers: will not be explained.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to think less. It's mostly in your guts anyway.

And time. It's pretty mysterious, don't you agree?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I try to surprise myself in my free time (see: atypical friday nights). If I'm not doing that, I'm probably sleeping.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I was 5, I wanted to be a bear when I grew up. If only I knew I'd be living in/around San Francisco and what that actually means.
You should message me if
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you're a romantic idiot disguised as a sarcastic asshole.

you think a cat would wear me to bed (so this here is a joke... like one with a punchline. its not an unpoetic suggestion.)

you're a genie.