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pkg419

25 / F / Gay / Single

Brookline, Massachusetts

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 6:21pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aries but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English
My self-summary
I’m generally very cheerful and I believe that a smile and a hug can turn a bad day around.

I’m the kind of person who would leave notes of encouragement or mix CDs for a friend if I knew they were having a bad week. I’m likely to do something “strangely affectionate” – such as tell someone I’ve only recently met that I think they are incredible and that I admire them. I’m tired of not telling people they are important to the world when I think that they are.

I’m likely to talk to strangers. It can be awkward and weird but I am pretty comfortable with that.

When the weather gets warm enough that I can go outside with no shoes on I start carrying flip flops in my bag (I generally try to walk barefoot in the grass whenever possible). I love the smell of spring after it rains but it makes me restless. Summer concerts in the rain cause me to laugh and dance in a ridiculous manner.

I always have a list of things that I want to learn how to do. Currently my list includes learning about plants and how to fix cars.

I actually hate that I feel like I have to put this in here but I self-identify as queer. I was listed as "Bi"- a term I don't identify with, but felt was more accurate than other options because I am attracted to people. I kept getting messages from couples. Something has to change. Now in the silly limited world of okc I'm gay.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm trying to keep my desire to travel under control even though some days I just want to pick up and go.
I’m really good at
Browsing in used books stores, giving hugs, making pumpkin bread, skipping, using tied-to-go, and laughing.
The first things people usually notice about me
It’s a toss up between my hair and my smile/laugh. I laugh a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Tom Petty, Joe Jackson, Ben Folds, Ben Kweller, Elliott Smith, Tracy Chapman, Janis Joplin, Melissa Etheridge, Elton John, Van Morrison, The Kinks, The Beatles, , P!nk, Grace Potter and the Nocturnals, Caroline Smith and the Goodnight Sleeps, NRBQ, Cat Stevens, and dance music of almost any kind from The Cherry Poppin’ Daddies to Lady Gaga. There are so many songs that are on my list of favorites but not whole albums. I’ll give anything a chance.

Books: How does one pick favorite books- Nine Stories, Daisy Miller, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, The Life of PI, Written on the Body, The Last of the Really Great Whangdoodles, Cat’s Cradle, Flannery O’Connor Short Stories, The Last Time I wore a Dress, Brideshead Revisited, The Heart is a Lonely Hunter, The Harry Potter Series, almost anything Jane Austen except for Persuasion.

Movies: Empire Records, Almost Famous, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Fight Club, any of the Die Hard movies, and Pride and Prejudice- the BBC version of course.

Food: Pickles
The six things I could never do without
sunshine, hugs, a good book to read, friends/family, laughter, and music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make the people I love smile, social inequality, immigration law, how to live a committed life, where I want to travel to next, and perhaps a million other things.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners