I'm just moving back to Kansas city, I've been living in Georgia for the past 17 years and I've loved it, but my Step dad is terminally ill and my mom needed support to help with his care . I want to spend as much quality time with them as possible so here I am . I'm very out going I'm a bit of a social butterfly. I'm very focused on my career, but family does come first. I enjoy a variety of things and will try anything once!!!! I enjoy spending time with family and friends, not to mention those private times with that special someone.

I'm currently working on my Phd. In Education, in between helping care for my terminally ill step dad.My cousin and I are stepping out on faith and opening a daycare center. We've purchased a bldg. and we are going to provide rigous curriculum, social skill bldg, technology, and a love for learning. Focasing on ages six months to five years of age. I will no longer talk about the LACK of quality education in our community I will be about creating quality education for our children. My goal is to have a charter school K- 5 by 2013. One of my goals is to stop literacy early by taking children back to the foundation of education. Is'nt it great ! to love what you do , and make money too ?

Active listening, Decorating, teaching, shopping, and on a good day I'm a pretty good cook. Working with our youth and helping them reach thier potential is something I enjoy. I have great communication skills.

Is my SMILE and my SWAGGER !!! Pretty women wonder where my secret lies. I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size I say, It's in the reach of my arms The span of my hips, The stride of my step, The curl of my lips. I'm a woman Phenomenally. I walk into a room Just as cool as you please, I say, It's the fire in my eyes, And the flash of my teeth, The swing in my waist, And the joy in my feet. I'm a woman Phenomenal woman, That's me. Men themselves try so much But they can't touch My inner mystery. I say, It's in the arch of my back, The sun of my smile, The ride of my breasts, The grace of my style. I'm a woman Phenomenally. When you see me passing It ought to make you proud. I say, It's in the click of my heels, The bend of my hair, the palm of my hand, The need of my care, 'Cause I'm a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That's me.

Music:Jazz, Blues, Soft Rock, R & B, Gospel
Movies: Fried Green Tomatoes, Why did I Married, Something New,
TV: CSI, Law & Order, 21/2 Men, Kings of Queens, Ulgy Betty,
Books: Girl get your money straight, The coldest winter,

1. Having Christ at the head of my life.
2.Sense of humor.
3.Good communication, it's the foundation of all relationships
4.Loving family and friends
5.Sound mind, excellent morals, loyalty
6.A great pair of shoes/w matching hand bag...... oh yeah!!!! MAC eyeshadow

Thinking about old age, if I'm prepared. Or will I be 70 years of age and a door greater @ Walmart. Do I have all my business in order, I have no children whom will I leave my legacy to? Who will care for me when I'm old?. If I've done all I could to help someone else along the way. Have I been a good friend, sister, lover, aunt, boss, mentor. I also think about my health, am I doing everything I can to lead a active, healthy and productive life?

I'm usually winding down from the weeks activities, First showering or a nice soak in the jet tub. I then put on some comfortable lounge wear, and some nice mellow jazz or watching a good movie, or should I say letting it watch me. With a glass or two of MUSCATO wine.... I love fruity drinks that pack a punch. probally some sea food and to top it off some fresh semi-cold fruit ie; pineapple, red seedless grapes. a realy sweet plum or nectarine. And if I'm lucky the company of a wonder man, with a warm smile and a few romantic bones in his body. who finds me still sexy an attractive at FORTY SOMETHING. SHUUUUUU I still tell people I'm thirty something. Oh I almost forgot some hot sweaty passionate sex....... the kind that put's you right to sleep after we've both have had mutual orgams . Was that to graphic of a typical friday night ????

Oh that's easy I SNORE !!! that's right I SNORE !!!!!
That I have a Masters in Education , working on my Phd and can'nt spell worth a damn!!!!! thank God for the following: dictionary.com and spell check!!
I'm have an aversion to men with MAN BREAST.
I WILL NOT date a man with nasty teeth, not on my watch, if you pay for a dental plan !!!! gosh darn use it .
Smart Nerdy men turn me on...... or maybe it's just intellgence that turns me on.
I sleep naked and walk around the house naked as if I'm a size 2 !!!! HEY IF I DON'T THINK IM SEXY WHO WILL ? I say all that to say, I'm comfortable in the skin I'm in.

All kidding aside a real private thing I'm willing to admit is ............
I'm afraid that I have such a aggressive demeanor, and a no-non sense attitude,to top it off I have a honest and direct approach to things, and the fact I let people know especially men when thier lying. I'm worried that I will not find a man to love me for me, to love me unconditionally . To love an appreciate all I bring to the table. I want a BONNIE AND CLYDE LOVE, a SCARLET an RET BUTTLER LOVE, A JAMES an FLORDIA EVANS LOVE

Your a nice guy with a good heart,a man who wants to be loved.... but also knows how to love. Oh yeah!!! I almost forgot a warm smile Im a sucker for a man with pretty teeth. {I'm NOT interested in a man that says he looking for a long term relationship, BUT DOES NOT HAVE TIME TO COMMUNICATE OR SPEND ANY QUALITY TIME DEVELOPING THE RELATIONSHIP, HOW DO YOU THINK RELATIONSHIPS GET STARTED? Duh !!!!!!} You should message me if .....you can challenge me mentally stimulate my mind. I would like for him to understand the concept of a Healthy relationship. Knowing that you only get out of your relationship what you put into it. You should messgae me if....you're a man with great self-esteem, great morals & values, stable finances, decent health and a warm wonderful smile, one or two romantic bones in your body.