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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Sep 11
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Christianity and laughing about it
Post grad
My self-summary
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I am playful, adventurous, and gentle.

If you rate me highly, send me a message. I'm not a paying member. I can't see that you liked what you saw and read.
What I’m doing with my life
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I goof off. I try to be an attentive uncle. I wonder how change actually happens (personal and social.) I read lots of books. I try to be an ally against any oppression, have a strong critique of u.s. militarism, believe in the Oxford comma, and like warmer climates.

I'm looking for a date, a movie, a conversation, a place to go hiking, a new restaurant to try, an adventure, a book discussion, a surprise, or a getting naked and having fun.

If you're curious by nature, a reader, a thinker, a social change activist, or a personal growth workshop junkie we might be a match.

In the long run can you imagine an evening of scrabble or bridge? How about board games with my niece and nephew? Helping host friends for dinner? A Sunday dinner with my extended family? If you're interested in these things we'll more likely spend years together.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, being creative, finding playful alternatives, being present. I'm pretty good at cooking and driving somewhere for the weekend.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my gap toothed smile
my smoldering brilliance
my sharpie scratching across the sheet
my cheap shoes that try to look like they aren't
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like spicy books, melodious foods, and a good story in any medium.

I read lots if fantasy, science fiction, an other stuff too.

I came by a temporary satellite radio connection and am listening to classical symphonies and dance/electronica.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My sense of humour.
Science fiction.
Hope for better solutions.
A cluttered creative workspace.
Miscounting to six.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether change is possible.
Solar panels.
Edible wild plants of Pennsylvania.
Get rich quick schemes.
Justice and Peacebuilding.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having dinner with friends. Reading a book. Relaxing or napping at the end of the week. Going out for a walk to see who's out and about.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I looked at your pictures before I read your profile.
You should message me if
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Something here caught your interest. You're looking to meet someone creative and playful for conversation or a walk in a park, through the city, or up a hill. If you like thai food, indian food, science fiction, or finding a good bargain.