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playinginthewav

42 M Victoria, British Columbia, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:13pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Leo
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am an open minded, open hearted man. My kids are grown and moved out, and I am starting a new chapter based around freedom, expression, and adventure. Part of this adventure is having an open relationship that makes room for more experiences, more connection, more love.

I have a busy full life -
like getting out in the woods, tossing a disk around, jogging, eating good food, stimulating conversatuon, jumping into cold water, flirting, live music, a good laugh... I love hanging out all snuggled up just talking, cuddling, and sharing ideas or swapping stories of dreams and adventures.

I am career transitioning too... I am loving life in my 40s - the freedom of knowing myself better, not caring as much what others think - who knew it would be so much fun to be middle aged??!!

I have an open and loving and happy marriage with my best friend in life. I'm not looking to replace her at all - I just believe love is not a pie - that there is lots to go around :)

Looking for fun natural connection... No games or pressure to follow any sort of script.
I’m really good at
Being open, honesty, skipping stones, frizbee, making a meal (out of whatever is on hand), listening carefully, staying up late, laughing at myself, eating all the cookies
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
anything thought provoking, moving, inspiring, disturbing, altering, hilarious, erotic, or educational.
The six things I could never do without
Friends, caring, sex, touch, ultimate, learning
On a typical Friday night I am
At a bbq or on a date, a music show, out at the bar, working, watching a movie etc - there really is no "typical" Friday night!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
ask me and I will tell you - in private. I think I have disclosed enough intimate details already!
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 24–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you feel like taking a risk and tempting fate. You know good hiking spots. You like to trail run or play ultimate or disk golf. Your a sun worshipper. Your funny and/or silly. You have a kind heart. Your open to the falling in love in a non possessive way, your intuition says so :)