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27 Portland, OR Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:20am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm hard to summarize, as I have a lot of contrasts. I like being ridiculous, but also having serious intellectual or emotional conversations. I enjoy meeting new people and deeply connecting with people, but I also need quality alone time. I'm socially liberal, but fairly conservative in my personal choices. I'm busy, but I make time for people and things that are important to me. I'm working on finding the balance, or at least a sustainable cycle.

I'm an evolving person, but some points of stability are my interest in learning about people and the world, caring about people, and investing in interpersonal relationships.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm applying to medical schools. In the mean time, I moved to Minneapolis to be with friends and live in community. I have a job leading kids through team-building, archery, climbing, and high ropes courses. I'm back in Portland this quarter to finish a second bachelor's degree (in Biology / pre-med) at PSU.

I dance (contact improv and blues in particular), experiment with cooking, started working out regularly, bike/hike (while the weather's still good), and connect with people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Being ridiculous. The world is exhilarating in its absurdity and explosive, colorful vibrancy, and at my best, I live in a balance of compassion for the world's problems and laughing at its contradictions (and my own).

- Reading and connecting with people: listening to people, being present, making them feel understood and cared about.

- Knowing things, be it about human physiology or medicine, current news, history, science, or any of my other fields of interest, or just random things I've picked up along the way. Not so much musical artists, unless it's on the radio or I have danced to it at some point.

- Rolling with change.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love good food, and especially trying new food. Thai food is my comfort food. I love all kinds of Asian foods and other ethnic food. I enjoy cooking, and I also like trying interesting beers.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Spending time with people I feel close to.
2) Independence, space, self-sufficiency. Self-control.
3) Movement: dance, exercise, adventures. Sometimes, travel.
4) Passion, direction, and clarity. It's hard-won, and I value it.
5) Food. I love experimental cooking, or trying new recipes, or going out to eat at interesting new places (or ones known to be excellent).
6) Flexibility balanced with assertive resilience.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In Portland, it's alt-blues/fusion dancing. Gotta soak it all up before I go back to Minneapolis.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm generally pretty open, if you make like you're interested. Perhaps even too open, as I'm really into connecting. So, ask.

I'm really into cuddling.
You should message me if
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Right now, I'm looking for new friends and communities, excellent dates, and connection. I'm not polyamorous, but am open to platonic cuddling with people who are (or are not).

Ultimately, I'm looking for a long-term partner. In addition to chemistry and a compatible sense of humor, I'm interested in people with goals/passion/direction, compassion, and awareness of the world and general competence, who value health, community, service, and partnership.