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30 Berlin, Germany Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jan 7
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Not at all
Atheism, and laughing about it
Dropped out of university
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English (Okay), German (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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In (East) Berlin born and raised. According to my tax returns, I am a writer. I got two books published, one on the dissolution of privacy in the internet age, and one on internet memes. I dabble in programming, and various other nerd enthusiasms. In the past, I've also worked as a very small-scale film critic. Before I dropped out of university some years ago, I (superficially) studied Philosophy and Film Studies.

I'm in an open relationship that greatly satisfies me. I'm not terribly busy looking for another partner; but neither am I averse to exploring other interpersonal connections.
What I’m doing with my life
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Some writing and public talking on topics I'm interested in. Doing experiments in the ways I manage my life, habits, and cognition. Trying to improve tiny pieces of the world, or at least make them more interesting.

Right now I'm trying to learn more about the reconstruction of Proto-Indo-European, I try to analyze in detail how one of my Debian Linux systems works, and I'm programming a computer game of the RogueLike genre.

A detailed log of my daily activities can be found here:
I’m really good at
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keeping my plans.
The first things people usually notice about me
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They don't tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Fiction/art – Lovecraft, Borges, Max Goldt, Neal Stephenson, Kim Stanley Robinson. But mostly I read non-fiction on history, technology, politics, linguistics etc.

Movies: Stuff by Sergei Eisenstein, Jean-Luc Godard, Peter Greenaway, Fassbinder, Alain Resnais, D.W. Griffith, Werner Herzog, Eric Rohmer, Sergej Parajanov.

Shows: Babylon 5. M*A*S*H. Some Star Trek. Deadwood. Spartacus, Rome and I, Claudius (they make a nice chronological chain). Family Guy. Neon Genesis Evangelion. The Prisoner. Law & Order.

Music: I like the minimalist works of Philip Glass and Michael Nyman. I like classical music, but I don't have much education on it. I enjoy Foyer des Arts and Die Kassierer, too.

Food: I don't have much food culture. I often eat döner kebabs, steaks, stuff that incorporates rice and chicken and curry. I also like some kinds of potatoes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My consciousness. The world around it. A communication channel between the two. Plus, under my current living arrangements: my glasses, the internet, my data.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My projects, my plans, ethics.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out socializing, or at home, working on my projects. Depends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I pick my nose. (No, not for eating.)
You should message me if
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you want to meet.