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38 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 25
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Earth-toned with purple stripes. That is to say, I'm a photographer, artist and college teacher who revels in the town as much as the country. I like sharing thoughts about things that make us think and believe in new ways.

I'm often taken for being 10 years younger than I am. More and more this seems like a mixed blessing.
What I’m doing with my life
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Exploring new ways of looking and thinking. Traveling as much as a little ant can.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Leaping up mountainsides like a billy goat. (I'm not really a little ant.)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm pragmatic but not practical. (I'm not actually a billy goat.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Ulysses and Dubliners, various things in Finnegans Wake; Pride and Prejudice, Emma; The Lover; aspects of Henry James though I'm not sure I can completely endorse any one novel; WG Sebald; Molloy, Malone Dies, The Unnameable; The Chairs; The Homecoming, The Birthday Party, The Dumb Waiter; Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?; Arcadia, R and G are D; stories by Julio Cortázar; stories by Miranda July; The Year of the Death of Ricardo Reis; Old Man and the Sea; Lear, As You Like It, Henry IV i, Hamlet; White Noise; The Book of Disquiet.

Michael Haneke; Antonioni; Chris Marker; Bela Tarr; Bergman; Kurosawa; Wong Kar-Wai; Chaplin; Agnes Varda; Coen Bros; Hal Hartley; Hou Hsiao-Hsien; Cassavetes; After Life, Nobody Knows; Duck Soup; The Conformist; Sunrise; Festen; Catch-22, Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?; Nights of Cabiria, La Dolce Vita; Rope, North By Northwest; Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, The Ice Storm; Farewell My Concubine; A Separation; Close-Up; Blood Simple; Children of Men; Reservoir Dogs; documentaries.

Godspeed You Black Emperor, Bob Dylan, The Beatles, much jazz from Bechet onward, much classical from Perotin to Penderecki and Pärt, roots music (eg Dick Justice, The Carter Family, Bukka White, Mississippi John Hurt), John Zorn, Cat Power, Yo La Tengo, Stereolab, My Bloody Valentine, Pixies, Secret Chiefs 3, Low, Sigur Ros, Iron and Wine, The Books, Wolf Parade, Neutral Milk Hotel, Dark Dark Dark.

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Nimble uses of language. Free-flowing laughter. Books. Coruscations of light. Wind. What's around the next bend. Wonderment. Music and dance.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where has all the weird gone?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Here and there.
You should message me if
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You feel Yes to
dancing all night; film festivals; experimental performance (doing or viewing); traveling abroad for long walks, hikes, sights, drives, museums, food; hiking to a lake and skinny dipping; staying up late sharing thoughts about art, books, history, culture, this strange world, the unknown universe, trajectories.

Money doesn't mean a lot to me and I don't earn very much. Given my interests I might one day but that's not a priority for me. I'm intellectually, existentially, and emotionally committed - that's what I value, and what I value in my partner.