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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27-37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Last online
Nov 24
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5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Earth-toned with purple stripes. Town and country. Creative experience. Often I'm taken for being 10 years younger. Half Harry Potter, half Sean Penn. I look forward to being a late-sixties 80-year-old.
What I’m doing with my life
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Exploring new ways of looking and thinking. Traveling as much as a little ant can.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Leaping up mountainsides like a billy goat. (I'm not really a little ant.)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm pragmatic but not practical. (And I'm not actually a billy goat.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Joyce; Pride and Prejudice, Emma; The Lover; aspects of Henry James though I'm not sure I fully embrace any one novel; WG Sebald; Beckett; The Chairs; Pinter; Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?; Arcadia, R and G are D; stories by Julio Cortázar; stories by Miranda July; The Year of the Death of Ricardo Reis; Old Man and the Sea; Shakespeare; Foe; White Noise; The Book of Disquiet.

Michael Haneke; Antonioni; Chris Marker; Bela Tarr; Bergman; Kurosawa; Wong Kar-Wai; Chaplin; Agnes Varda; Coen Bros; Hal Hartley; Hou Hsiao-Hsien; Cassavetes; After Life, Nobody Knows; Duck Soup; The Conformist; Sunrise; Festen; Catch-22, Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?; Nights of Cabiria, La Dolce Vita; Rope, North By Northwest; Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, The Ice Storm; Farewell My Concubine; A Separation; Close-Up; Blood Simple; Children of Men; Reservoir Dogs; the documentaries.

Godspeed You Black Emperor, Bob Dylan, The Beatles, much jazz, much classical, roots (eg Dick Justice, The Carter Family, Bukka White, Mississippi John Hurt), John Zorn, Cat Power, Yo La Tengo, Stereolab, My Bloody Valentine, Pixies, Secret Chiefs 3, Low, Sigur Ros, Iron and Wine, The Books, Wolf Parade, Neutral Milk Hotel, Dark Dark Dark, Tom Waits.

Babaganoush. The Avocado.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Nimble uses of language. Free-flowing laughter. Books. Coruscations of light. Wind. What's around the next bend. Wonderment. Music and dance.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where has all the weird gone San Franciscoooo
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Climbing bookshelves
You should message me if
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yes to

dancing; the film festivals; experimental performance (doing or viewing); seeing the new countries; hiking to the lakes and skinny dipping; staying up late talkin shop 'bout art, books, history, science, the starry dynamo and its trajectories.