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pm141414

28 / M / straight / Single

Cape Coral, Florida

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Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English

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I am loyal, fun, and awesome.

My Self-Summary

Who I be
Where will life take me next,
A place where its hot to death,
Or maybe where I can slow down and catch my breath.
Because I am constanly moving yet once I'm there I'm never leaving
But I cannot stay in one place for that will prevent others receiving what I have to offer, but best be believing,
I'm kind of a big deal, people know me
And that whole meaning of life question, I am the key.
I search for others I can affect
Someone needing a hug or a kiss or maybe just some respect.
I am in a million places in one time,
I'm at the deepest canyon yet also at the highest peak.
I am there for the very strong and also for the very weak.
There is no one I will turn away and say,
"Nope, not good enough" or
"Nope, they don't need me any more."
Because you will always need me,
No matter who you are, humble or greedy.
Slow or speedy.
Even if you eat your wheaties you will need me.
For a life without me is a life not fully lived,
No one can turn away my gift.
I give wings to those unable to fly,
Courage to live on for those wanting to die.
I give a little piece of heaven wherever I go
Because those that feel my power will shine so bright,
It would make the power of the sun's glow look like merely a dim light.
I have that affect on people, they never want to get rid of me once they feel my power.
And once they have felt it, they will begin to shower others with the same gift I have provided.
I am inside kids,
But also inside those so old.
By my very presence, a life I can mold.
I can turn a killer to a soul so gentle,
A mean spirited person into some one you can vent to.
But I can also make a gentle man kill,
For when my power is so strong that it can turn into rage and anger so servere,
That no one can deny my appeal.
Please don't push me away though, for believe I'll always be here
Even in the hearts of even those wanting nothing to do with my blessings.
For I can penetrate their fortress like it was an open dwelling.
In case you still don't know still don't know who I be,
I am the one, the only.
L.O.V.E.

What I’m doing with my life

I am currently working as the Network Administrator at a local concrete company. When not at work, I spend as much time with family and friends. My hobbies include sports, TV, movies, and music.

I’m really good at

seeing both point of views. I have my beliefs, but I can usually argue against it also if I had to. I think there are two sides to every debate and I sometimes like to play devil's advocate just to liven things up.

The first things people usually notice about me

Right now, its my crutches. I recently had ACL reconstructive surgery so I am kind of hobbling around.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

For books, I like conspiracy books. I am a big fan of Angels and Demons and The Da Vinci Code. Movies, I love comedies. Judd Apatow (spelling?) is one of my favorite producers / directors. I also am man enough to say I do like the occasional romantic comedy. Music, I grew up really into hip hop. Since getting older, I am starting to like some light rock. Oh yeah, I also am a big country music fan. Weird huh? Food depends on my mood. I like all types of food.

The six things I could never do without

1. Family
2. Friends
3. Cell Phone
4. Laptop
5. TV
6. ESPN

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Girls. I am looking for a good one that I can spend my time with. One that is pretty, intelligent, funny, charismatic, caring, loving, loyal, and likes to have fun. Is that too much to ask for :o)?

On a typical Friday night I am

I am with my friends at some bar or club.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I secretly watch the show One Tree Hill

You should message me if

you are looking for a fun, loyal, good guy that loves to have a good time.