I am outgoing, garrulous, and calm
I'm not looking for a Playmate type woman. While physical attraction is nice, I'm looking more for someone to hang out with, someone who can enjoy my interests and willing to share their interests with me. Sakes, I might even get to liking it! Someone I can just sit next to and enjoy their company, even if we don't say anything. Playing cards in the kitchen into the evening.
I don't really need a pen pal. I rather enjoy driving but would like to find someone close enough that I'm not worn out just from driving to meet them.
Now, I do have a job. It keeps me busy and I can't just take off. While I like to do things on the spur of the moment, I took the job on and will do it. Sorry, but if you want someone that can just head up on a moments notice, I can't do that.