When I have the time I like to
-meditate using chocolate, no really: it's definitely weak, but if you do enough of it, you'll be ok
-have a good drink in good company, preferably while playing pool, poorly
-create works of art, not so poorly
-read whatever my friends are reading, just not over their shoulders
-all sorts of geek stuff: scrabble, mini golf, RPGs, board games, the list goes on and on...
But mostly I'm looking for someone I can open up to the way Dexter could open up to Lumen.
Enneagram: my top 3 are 5, 6 & 9. I'd say 5 is the most accurate.