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31 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 6
Asian, Pacific Islander, Other
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from space camp
Science / Engineering
More than $1,000,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has cats
English (Poorly), C++ (Poorly), Icelandic (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Hi :) I'm here to make new friends. I'd like to find more mtf/ftm or queer friends specifically - but I like everyone. I'm somewhere in the middle.

I generally feel that i would get along with people that are fluid and not expecting to either give or take too much. Poly minded is more of my own style even though I try not to rule out anything.

My Myers-Briggs says that I'm an INFJ and I think its pretty dead on.

Pnut is my cats name. :)

Queer. Poly. Gray Ace-for starters.

I turned my account on just to see if e_j will ever turn hers on again.

Happy pride :)
What I’m doing with my life
I have an established career in the tech industry for the past 18 years. Last year I opened up my own photography business. Both are going well.

I'm doing a self portrait project for 2014. For a person that doesn't have many photographs taken its been pretty enlightening. Especially for exposure therapy.

I recently identified as queer after being in a violent relationship. I constantly wondered what drove me to put myself in that situation. I believe it is a positive part of the healing process to take personal responsibility for what happened to me. I started branching out in conversation to see how other people are and what makes them happy too and I really enjoy it.

In a couple of years I'm going to buy a piece of land build out a microhouse or a camper/trailer. It'd be nice to get off the grid and out of the race. Slaving for happiness is a joke. I believe that we are already born with it and with freedom. Lets go.
I’m really good at
Photography. It's been my method to exercise art out of superficiality. Go see my photos at
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This section loses its importance more and more each day. I used to base all of my interactions out of who liked what i like but it became more evident that its not about liking exactly the "right" things or agreeing... Its about the passion you have or the memories you've made. I've watched thousands of movies and listened to countless bands and dj's spread across decades. Mowed down food from all parts of the world. You have too. Really... who cares? I'll listen to your brother-in-laws mixtape of his tibetan throat singing mixed with a distorted ukulele while eating beet caviar or eat a cheeseburger and listen to bowie. I still know nothing about food, books, music or movies.
The six things I could never do without
Family- in the sense that we are all in this together. I do love my mama though.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
One day i'll stop vibrating and the world will continue to hurtle forward in a giant ball of beautiful chaos. I think about what I'll leave behind should the clock run out in the distant future or even today.

It reminds me to appreciate what we have and be grateful that we have the time to enjoy it. If we've lived previous lives, I hope that this time around we can do things a little bit differently.
On a typical Friday night I am
Wondering what the best way to use the next 48 hours will be. This is usually planning the next shoot or adventure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll admit anything. Honesty is the best policy- no matter how ugly or beautiful.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You like conversation. I'd like to think that I'm a pretty nice person overall - based in both logic and art with aim for more compassion and kindness in my life. I like talking about science, movies, space, social systems, metaphysics, poetry, poly, queer, cats, business, photography and foodstuffs.

I'm very attracted to kind, generous and thoughtful people. The world needs you and I like to be part of that company and community.

Say hi- if it's ok to be me, then it's ok to be you.