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pocitomas

23 Lebo, KS Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 23–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 1
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Native American, White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and very serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Hospitality
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, and wants more
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First off, I'm a lady. I expect and deserve to be treated with respect.
INFP, but occasionally T. And occasionally S. But never at the same time.
My ears are stretched, but only to a 2. If this bothers you, there will probably be many, many more things about me that bother you.
If you are desperate... just keep going. Don't even bother reading my page. I made this with the intention of finding people with the same interests as me, people I identify with. People who are different than me, that can make me see things in ways I've never seen them before. People who are passionate about something, and want to tell me about it.
I'm not looking for sex. Period.
I wanna do stuff. Tear the world apart and put it back together better than it was before.
I do not want someone who is perfect, I would rather find someone who is perfectly accepting of my imperfections.
I love singing. I love being alone, but I also like being alone with another person.
I love rain, snow, and going without makeup. Turtles, puppies, and bulls. Don't like sports much, but if I had to choose, I'd choose baseball.
I'm one of those people that you can read exactly how I'm feeling on my face, but I'll never say it out loud.
Being comfortable with your singing voice is unbelievably huge.
My main motivation in life is ultimately making the world a better place. I'm not sure how yet, but I want to make a huge difference for someone.
I don't like chocolate and, as terrible as they are, lifetime movies always make me cry. When I was younger, I wanted to have my nose removed because I didn't like the idea of something poking out of my face. I like rapping even though I'm bad at it and nothing makes me laugh harder than a good dirty joke.
I want a sensitive asshole. Someone who is cool with cuddling, but doesn't like shopping with me. Enjoys a good cigar every now then, but knows how to hold a baby and is good at playing with kids. A guy that makes me nervous consistently. Someone with as many facets as myself, but still knows how to enjoy the small things.
I'm willing to make of a fool of myself to put someone in a better mood, but I am super serious when someone comes to me with an actual problem.
I wanted to be a writer for the longest time, but I'm starting to figure things out a little bit and I know I'm meant for bigger things than a few 300-some page stories.
I love laughing, I love spending time with people I can really talk to and have deep conversations with.
I'm not real impressed with physical attractiveness. I'm just as impressed with washboard abs as I am an extensive star wars collection. they're both cool and its awesome that someone would work hard for something they want, but at the end of the day, I probably would never date someone because they possessed either.
But if you have both, come talk to me.

Please don't confuse this with not caring what you look like. If you look like you don't give a crap how you look (or smell), I'm probably not going to care to impress you, either.
If you're looking for a simple girl, not complex and is content with what they've got, keep looking.
I'm complex. I'm always dreaming. I'm always looking for a deeper meaning. I've got aspirations, things I want to do and places I dream of going.

also, if you are one of those guys that likes to send the same message (you are so beautiful....your profile left me with a smile...a girl who is so obviously out of my league...) to every single girl, and has nothing personal whatsoever, don't worry about it. I can tell when something is forced or impersonal. Sure, I like being complimented. I can't think of a single girl that hates to hear "wow, you look really nice." But my word people! Honestly, I'm not going to reply if all you send me is "you are pretty." I practically have composed an autobiography and nothing except my pictures was worthy of comment? I'm going to have to assume any conversing we would do would be similarly (un)inspiring.
Short story?
I'm not judging you by your looks. Don't judge me by mine.

I've been told I'm a bitch before, but I don't feel like i am (ex. preceding paragraph). In fact, I know I'm not. My guy friend put it this way when i said i thought I seemed bossy: "Seem? You are bossy, there's no seeming about it. But, it's okay. It's not that you want to control people, it's just that you know want you want and aren't afraid of telling people what they need to do to make you happy."

I'm really really terrible at the whole messaging thing. Its just really not me.
I'm fonder of talking in person. Some people like to wait a couple weeks to get to know the person online, but chances are I've already forgotten about them.
I realize this isn't very fair, so I've devised a rough draft for you, in the chance that someone finds me vaguely funny or otherwise amusing:
"Hey, you sparkly cupcake mouse, I think I would like to hang out sometime, do you have a day off anytime soon that we could make that happen? I would also like to have your number, mostly because I am afraid we will have nothing to talk about while hanging out if this is the only conversing we actually do beforehand."
Throw in some compliments, tell me how witty I am, and how my eyes seem to capture the words of a thousand long dead poets, and maybe I will agree to hanging out.
I'm playing.
Maybe.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to figure out life and be happy.
I've got a baby that's under two, so there's that. Pretty big part of my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Throwing dirty clothes across the room and making them in the hamper.
catching food in my mouth.
creative writing... at least every creative writing teacher I've had has told me this. I don't know. I just enjoy it.
advice.
eating cupcakes.
After seeing how long my 'about me' is, I'd say I'm pretty good at talking about myself. geeeez.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
a lot of people say that the first time they meet me, I'm really intimidating. I'm pretty sure its because I'm reserved (at first) and I think it comes off as snobby, but I'm really not that way at all.
Someone once told me I have "alluring cheeks"... whatever that means.
other than that, people comment on my hair and my eyes a lot.
I really do have pretty good hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I listen to a broad range of music, but at the same time, I am super picky. And I will probably be judging you by what you listen to. There aren't wrong styles to listen to, it just reveals a lot about people.
Scratch that. Nickelback. Nickelback is a wrong answer.
As far as my musical tastes go, I like sequences and repetitions.
^if you got that reference, amessage me. right meow.
Four Year Strong, Cobra Starship, Stephen Jerzak, Cute is what we aim for, hyro da hero, Set Your Goals, Mest, Yellowcard, Sherwood, a lil Chelsea Grin every now and then. Miss May I. The Word Alive. uhhhhhmmmm. Pierce the veil. :) Definitely We Came As Romans.
Yeah, i really like ADTR. deal with it.
Warped Tour :}))))
Disney music is the s-word. in the good way. Like, the stuff from the old movies... like Mulan, Pocahontas, you get the picture.
Really dig Garth Brooks, George Strait, Jo Dee Messina, among others.
I really could go on forever.
I'm super into La Dispute, if you don't know who they are, definitely check them out. If their lyrics do nothing for you, it'll probably be a good indication we won't mesh. maybe.

not real big on movies, bigger on books, but as far as movies, I like:
Van Helsing, Moulin Rouge, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Motorcycle diaries, la misma luna. um. yeah. I can't think of more. damn, yeah I can. the sherlock holmes movies. for real. uuuuugh. so awesome.

TV shows? hm. Criminal Minds, Psych (when I can, it's never on anymore), and Duck Dynasty for sure. and that's about it. Unless we're talking music shows, and I would have to say just about anything.

Food:
Mexican food. It is the most delicious.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
freedom, my car, music, a good chapstick, a pen and paper.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How Much Hot Glue Can I Put On My Finger Before It Blisters?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either working or hanging out with my family.
I'm not really one for the party scene, but every now and then I can be found out and about.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My car is in desperate need of a good cleaning.
but other than that, nothing.
I don't have many secrets, but if you want to find out more about me sending a message doesn't take that much effort. And I think that at least that can be done.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you like skinny jeans. on girls and yourself.
you've dyed your hair, and you would again willingly.
you love who you are.

you are just looking for a friend (not fwb).

Things, traits, and personality defects I will absolutely not be okay with and if you identify with you should not message me:
Racism
Closed-mindedness
Arrogance
An inability to close your mouth while you chew. I am dead serious about this. I have (self-diagnosed) misophonia, and chewing is my trigger.

Also, do not call me 'bro' or 'dude' or any version of the term. I am not your bro. I am not a dude.