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35 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Dec 22, 2014
Pacific Islander
4′ 11″ (1.50m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Okay), Tagalog (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If we are indeed what we eat, I am approximately 33% bacon, 67% cheese, and 100% dark chocolate. Math is my strong suit. I'm Asian.

If we are a reflection of our friends and family, I am deeply compassionate and passionate, social justice-y, loyal, emotive, hilarious, artistic, intelligent, connected. My community is pretty kick ass. Hella blessed.

I'm a natural extrovert and I cherish time alone. I'm short and I love to play volleyball. I'm an environmentalist and I love meat. I'm Filipina and I don't own a Magic Mic, but I sure do love me some karaoke.


At this point, I'm looking for a partner in creative crime/life shenanigans. I'm looking for someone who has a pretty amazeballs life and strong sense of self, who is willing to do some serious venn diagram merging of mega-awesomness, but not complete overlap (because you know, we should be our own beautiful individual selves). That being said, I don't mind meeting cool and down folks on the journey.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Striving for that elusive balance and breath as all things rise and all things pass.

For Work (although this often feels like Play): Running a national program on storytelling and story-changing.

I love what I do, but it's not all that I am. Everything in my life is about growth and love. All kinds of growth. All kinds of love. Holy shitballs, that's the hippiest thing I've ever written.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...being JUST this side of healthy type-A organization.
...laughing inappropriately loud.
...tetris (or tetris-like games) - SHAAAAA-LONGE!
...donating to causes that feature charismatic mega-fauna.

I'd like to be better at
...leading cross-step waltz.
...outdoor rock climbing.
...playing the cello.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The contrast of a big personality in a pocket-sized package.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
SO. MANY. Peruse at your leisure...

I'm kind of a Sci-Fi/Fantasy nerd, with a bent towards speculative fiction. Lions of Al-Rassan, Ender's Game, Sandman, The Sparrow, LOTR, Dresden Files.

More recently reading: Americanah by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Switch: How to Change Things When Change is Hard by Chip Heath and Dan Heath, The Golem and the Jinni by Helene Wecker.

Dark Knight Series, Eternal Sunshine, Avengers, LOTR, Serenity, High Fidelity, P&P, Up, Tombstone.

Recently watched: Captain America: Winter Soldier - hella solid political espionage. Looking forward to X-Men: Days of Future Past - continuity issues be damned! and Guardians of the Galaxy. Letting my geek flag fly..

Bones, SYTYCD, Wire, BoB, Breaking Bad, Sherlock, Doctor Who. I'm also a big Whedon head. I still get misty thinking about Firefly. Just finished Friday Night Lights. Best written married couple. Hands down.

MUSIC (currently on rotation):

I know I'm five bazillion years late, but Spotify is blowing my mind right now. I can't get off 90s Hip Hop, Motown Soul, or Singer Songwriter Acoustics. LOL

Is hella important to me. It can be ritual, life, and an expression of love. I often sing, dance or moan when eating something tasty. I'm not sure what this says about me. I'm always down for sushi, curry, anything with cheese, ice cream, or fresh-baked bread.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Gadgets
2. Cheese
3. Stories - Reading, Writing, Telling
4. Burt's Bees Chapstick
5. Lotion
6. Pillows
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Overthrowing global capitalism. Too soon?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Yes yes, doing something atypical, like everyone else and their mom. <-- Then, I realized this was snarkier than I usually am, but seriously I think this question is a waste of profile space. IMHO.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've taken a liking to saying, "____balls." Sometimes just balls, shitballs, amazeballs. There's something about the phonetics. I can't help it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like to eat good food - whether it's hole-in-the-wall or Michelin- rated.

You know how to communicate like a grown-up.

You know who you are and know how to hold your center in all types of relationships.

You like to dance - rhythm preferred. Extra stars for waltz and lindy.

You want to do something outdoorsy.

You want to swap tattoo origin stories.